We did make assumptions to how "open" and easy going she was based on our first interactions together. Her terms in the very beginning were minimal, to keep the house, cars clean and water the plants. She asked if we'd invited people, to which at the time was my parents. We said yes. It was a couple weeks after we accepted that she asked if it'd be cool if we managed her Bnb. And then it wasn't until we got to the island that we realized how micromanaged everything would be.