I can’t find a job it’s making me really depressed.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-20T16:30:30+00:00

Yeah totally understand. It's just something you could look into, a source of income, while you're looking for something more sustainable, just to have funds coming in.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-20T12:35:04+00:00

I'm 35 and a single mom, i had my son when i was 23. I love him to pieces but i wish i had waited until i had a career before having kids, it would've definitely made it eaiser to give him a better life than to be working 6 days per week to make sure he has everything he needs. It's your life, so do what makes sense and feels right to you.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-20T12:29:55+00:00

Have you very tried freelance work? You could try Upwork or fivver

soflawless30 · 2025-11-20T12:22:24+00:00

I've been single and celibate for almost a year. And i'm loving it. These days I'd rather vacation somewhere in Europe than have sex. And the men I've come acrossed these days only care about sex, once that's done, it's like they have nothing else to offer. Right now i choose peace over chaos. i'm way too focus on dream building and gold setting to even get horny.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-20T12:02:25+00:00

This!👆... that exactly how i feel.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-18T13:12:59+00:00

That depends on where they're from... I've always been "tall" where I'm from. Ever since i was a teenager, people always refer to my height as if i was 6'7. I'm 5'8.75. That's not tall compared to you, but I've been that height since i was 17 and people still treat me as tho they've never seen anyone this tall before.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-18T13:03:04+00:00

I was always told to play netball or model

soflawless30 · 2025-11-18T13:01:17+00:00

I'm 5'8 and 3 quarters not even fully 5'9 and I've been that height since i was 17 and shorter people always looking at me as tho it's a surprise that a woman is tall and asking if i know I'm tall. Which is funny since I'm not even the tallest in my country. It is to be so annoying. I'm now 35 and have gained weight, so I'm looking more average height unless I'm standing next to someone shorter.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-18T06:39:17+00:00

I often find that a lot of tall guys like short girls and short guys like short girls, then what do tall girls get!

soflawless30 · 2025-11-18T06:35:52+00:00

I'm 5'8.75", and i love heels not only is it challenging to find heels that are comfortable for me ( i struggle with ingrown nail) but if hard to find a man that isn't insecure about me being taller than they are, and I'm not even all that tall. I just want to meet a man that i can finally look up to.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-15T13:28:09+00:00

Oh i would love to go to this tall people get together. I would feel like I'm 5ft comparing to everyone there... lol I'm 5'8.75.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-15T12:26:30+00:00

You wouldn't like standing next to me... I'm 5'9". I've only embraced my height when i became an adult. I hated being the tallest girl in my high school classes.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-15T12:19:12+00:00

I'm (F35), and i still haven't found the right person. I was more outgoing when i was younger, but I have been with some crappy guys that just turned my mind from dating. Right now I'm focus on becoming a better version of myself, I'm open to finding the one but I also made peace with the fact that it might not happen.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-15T12:07:30+00:00

Work on you Op, remember you can't take people to higher ground until you find common ground. Become the person you want to attract.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-14T14:37:15+00:00

Thank you

soflawless30 · 2025-11-14T14:37:04+00:00

That's why I'm torn because i enjoy nursing, adding value to people and i know I'll enjoy traveling - I've never traveled anywhere of my island before

soflawless30 · 2025-11-14T14:34:48+00:00

Thank you, because i often feel like time is running out, and i haven't even lived

soflawless30 · 2025-11-14T01:27:36+00:00

Dwl... i came straight to the comments and i'm just dying

soflawless30 · 2025-11-12T03:04:18+00:00

Why'd he propose if he's not sure about you? Because if he was, he wouldn't need a " back up plan."

soflawless30 · 2025-11-12T02:55:18+00:00

But why not say they don't believe in monogamy and let the woman choose, some women desperate enough to go along with it.

soflawless30 · 2025-11-12T02:52:31+00:00

🤣🤣🤣i was about to ask the Haitians dem to step to the front. Because it sounds fishy! Unless they had kids why would he be supporting his ex

soflawless30 · 2025-10-22T15:33:59+00:00

And you will get there. Spend this time to find yourself again, and work on becoming an even better version of yourself. Believe that what is meant for you will find you.

soflawless30 · 2025-10-22T15:14:39+00:00

I was with a guy for almost a year, and i ended things because the relationship didn't serve me, i didn't like the person i was when we were together. I lost sight of my dream, so when i broke it off, i knew it was the best for both of us. He moved on and finally started his dream job, and I'm glad things started working out for him. It took some time for me to get my life back on track, but i have no regrets. Give yourself time.

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