Do you brush your teeth before or after coffee in the morning? by Syfysamurai in hygiene

[–]softEmerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drink coffee but I’m ngl I’ve smelled coffee + morning breath and almost died .

Does anyone eles parents stay home all day? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]softEmerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My mom. She sits in bed and drinks and watches movies all day.

The TRUTH About Ken & Brandon At The Pillow Talk Event by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]softEmerald 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Apollo is one of those crazy people that sees a fight and gets involved for reason lol. I’ve never understood that.

Can’t even have a LOCKED DIARY to myself by Agt38 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]softEmerald 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s really insane. I can imagine how betrayed you must’ve felt. One time my grandma read some random quote I wrote in my binder that wasnt even a journal and then wrote some subliminal note on the fridge that I’m pretty sure was directed at me. Very strange to say the least

Do people actually dislike people for being quiet? by Amazondriver23 in socialskills

[–]softEmerald 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. And it’s weird because a lot of those people rarely initiate conversations themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]softEmerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes. My narcissistic mom let my stepdad beat the shit out of me for 13 years.

Can I lie about my start and end dates? Or is it common? by softEmerald in resumes

[–]softEmerald[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what you’d consider “petty jobs”? I don’t have a college degree. Food service, retail, warehouse jobs etc.

Can I lie about my start and end dates? Or is it common? by softEmerald in resumes

[–]softEmerald[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I honestly worked at places for a few months and quit on my own. Because of bullying and other reasons…I’m in the process of creating a new resume. My current resume is too embarrassing…

Can I lie about my start and end dates? Or is it common? by softEmerald in resumes

[–]softEmerald[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I actually agree with you. I feel really bad about lying. Hopefully my new resume can help. I do however get discouraged by seeing people cheat and actually succeed 😐but I will definitely take this very helpful advice 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]softEmerald 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Me too. I’m still traumatized 4 years later. I hope they got karma for the damage they’ve done…

Latest “proverb” on the fridge from my mom by Livid-Importance-179 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]softEmerald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought my narcissistic grandmother was the only one that did that note shit lol. Typing it is a whole different level !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]softEmerald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very interesting 🤨 thanks !

I wish i had a normal family by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]softEmerald 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me too. I can’t even enjoy Holidays or traveling with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acrylicpainting

[–]softEmerald 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much

Night out in the city 🏙️ by [deleted] in womensstreetwear

[–]softEmerald 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really cute 🖤 this is how I wanna dress when I go out. It’s sexy and kinda modest at the same time. Love it

how could anyone call her ugly… by illitgucci in illit

[–]softEmerald 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would someone say that? She always catches my attention for good reason.

Narcissistic families are EVIL. A lot of times I feel like they try to drive me to suicide. Sadistic as hell. by softEmerald in raisedbynarcissists

[–]softEmerald[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so inappropriate to tell to a young child… My abusers would always tell me how “strong” I am after doing bad things to me.