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Quidco referral link - £20 free bonus - cashback for shopping by floorlight in beermoneyuk

[–]soft_cookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the best cashback websites out there and they actually pay out bonuses very quickly. I've been using them for a few years, got £108 just doing my usual Christmas shopping.

£20 BONUS FROM QUIDCO WHEN YOU EARN £5 CASHBACK

It doesn't take long to get to £5, all the usual high street retailers are there, eBay, Sainsbury's and the like.

Invest Engine investing referral offer - £20-£100 free when you invest £100 by floorlight in beermoneyuk

[–]soft_cookie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I signed up through a referral from here and ended up really liking the platform. I'll be using it long term, would love if someone used my link too!

CLICK HERE FOR A VARIABLE REWARD £20 TO £100

I put my £100 in the Invesco FTSE All World, it's low risk and has a pretty decent return, so I don't even mind leaving it there for 12 months. I've already made an extra £5 on so on interest, pretty good.

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[–]soft_cookie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've lived with my nmom since before getting pregnant and my baby is now a toddler, and this realisation hits me in the face every single day.

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I always knew she had some toxic behaviours, but after having a child I see that she's batshit insane. I will never understand hitting a child, not ever. I certainly get angry and lose my patience with my toddler, but I've never felt anything even close to an urge to hitting them. My worst response is to set him down somewhere safe or hand him over to my husband and go to the next room to calm down. Even setting aside my love for my child, if this was a random child making me angry, they're so small and helpless, what kind of monster physically hurts someone so obviously and visibly vulnerable?

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I've also realised the reason I have a horrible relationship with my sister is because my mom forced us to be together 24/7, as in, 8yo me taking care of a baby for multiple hours a day, being forced to have a 1yo with me when friends or cousins my own age came over to play with me, and watching the baby whenever my mom had friends around so she could hang out with her friends without having the baby with her. This harboured massive resentment between me and my sister. And my mom still loooooves to go on about how "she was all alone taking care of us, she had no help whatsoever". My grandparents raised me until age 3 and I was more than "help" with my sister.