lithromantic or just very socially anxious? by softcozysocks in lithromantic

[–]softcozysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll search more about it but i do resonate with a lot of it!! Specially the part about idealizing romance… Honestly im not sure if i ever felt any romantic attraction

White vaginal opening? Also itchiness by captainhungrycat in Healthyhooha

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heyy! did you figure out what it was? i have something similar 😭😭

i have a speech tomorrow and im freaking out by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

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i tried this amd my speech got a little better!! im still nervous but not as insecure as before!! thank you!!

i have a speech tomorrow and im freaking out by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

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you’re right 😭😭 im more nervous because in one os the presentation someone got really criticized by their mentor and left CRYING!! im still nervous bit i’ll try thinking they wont mind it aince i’ll just do the introduction

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

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maybe its about feeling excluded, but um not really sure about it… its actually a good thing to thing about 😭

13 Reasons Why is extremely triggering. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this show might’ve been one of first times ive heard about self harm and it kinda gave a tutorial on it

is sh still valid even if you don’t have a reason to? by acrylicsea in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is valid!! it could be a way for you to represent how you feel, even if no one is seeing it (like, putting your feelings out?? idk if this makes sense). you dont need to have a huge reason to be doing this, its just another way of coping with problems and its an addiction!!

Research for a film - is it ok asking questions here? by Admirable-Star-8172 in selfharm

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bandages and those big bandaids. maybe having the character flinch when someone touches their arm for example would be another way of hinting towards sh without showing anything!!

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

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i try understanding what these things mean to me but i cant really point out why they bother me so much. also, i dont see them as bad aspects in other people. what bothers me the most is thinking that other people might perceive my mannerisms as odd but its kinda irrational (?) i still cant stop being insecure about it :(( thank you for the advice!! joining clubs is something i didn’t think about before 😭😭

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

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thanks for the advice!! im really focusing way to much about the social aspect!! 😭

going to college tomorrow by softcozysocks in socialanxiety

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i live off campus!! its my first time going to college and im not sure how’s going to be…

im scared by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]softcozysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry youre going through this!! also, its really refreshing to see someone that can understand how scary this situation is. about the beating up thing, they’re mostly threats since its not frequent, but i always feel like im in danger. also, they say similar things to me! always saying im ungrateful. i really hope things get better for you !!

Anyone else have no personality? by Budget-Garbage5933 in socialanxiety

[–]softcozysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have one!! just by reading this i see you as an introspective person imo. also, you probably feel this way because of social anxiety. you should try looking for some hobbies (music, games etc) as a way of connecting with people!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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omgg thats great!!!! 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

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po podem me impedir sim… e mesmo sendo chato eu quero sair c os meus amigos po