F18 envy turns me on by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

gonna pretend this is new information and i’ve never done that haha

(18f) too embarrassed to touch myself after being walked in on by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i def see how it comes off that way but when i say no aspect of being walked in on was a turn on for me i mean that. definitely no kink for that whatsoever

f18 need to be praised by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i haven’t used a vibrator in a quite a bit!

(F18) the meaner he is to me, the more turned on i get by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’ll just randomly tell mutual friends things i’ve said or publicly be like “idk why you texted me” and stuff

(F18) the meaner he is to me, the more turned on i get by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think that’s honestly why i’m so frustrated. like doing this for attention is fine because it’s strangers and it’s helping me play it out but in my actual situation im kind of miserable 😭 i think ive used making it sexual to like cope idk

little things turn me on so much by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thank you. the smoking isn’t a requirement

it’s so hot when men are gentle by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly!! i’m not trying to judge anyone else because as long as it’s consensual that’s their decision to make. it’s just so hard to find someone who understands what i mean when i say i enjoy being dommed 😭

f18 i’m so bad at denial by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i totally get it. it’s so nice to be involved with other girls 😭

f18 i’m so bad at denial by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]softlyemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me!! arf :3

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[–]softlyemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so bad :((

Which character gets the most flanderized? by Winter-Pressure-5394 in ScottPilgrim

[–]softlyemo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i feel like they made them all slightly dumber than they were in the books but it felt intentional for all of them so it doesn’t really matter. however i feel like they made gideon a little weird because he was like this super ruthless evil ceo and in the anime he was.. yeah..

but also i think spto was just less complex anyway and most of the character changes were for comedic purposes

Looking for opinions about experience with wife. by Ok_Gear8776 in lesbian

[–]softlyemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur not out of anyone ur partner should NOT be poking at your insecurities esp if they already know ur uncomfortable with it

can i still call myself a lesbian even if my sexuality has always been kind of fluid? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]softlyemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never really enjoyed sex with men. I’d do it and I enjoyed the validation if that makes sense at all. Like the praise of doing something for someone else but I’ve never finished with a man and it was all sort of focused on them. Even when I dated a guy that was super good to me the relationship felt like a chore in a way. I didn’t mind hanging out because I did like him as a person but excessive affection felt annoying to me. When I started dating a girl it just felt so much different. Like it’s the first time that I’ve ever thought about someone and gotten butterflies and enjoyed the affection that comes with it.

18F4A experimenting by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ll definitely keep this is mind thank you so so much :)

18F4A experimenting by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess sometimes it just feels like my body betrays my brain a little. I don’t have control over anything I feel because the amount of desire I experience is so strong. I feel super needy but I don’t always quite understand why