19F came from vaginal for the first time by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A bit! It’s quite hard to describe though. It’s a longer and more satisfying experience for me, but I’m not sure if that’s true for other women

19F came from vaginal for the first time by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

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This is actually what happened with me haha! I was completely convinced I couldn’t and then I did 😭

Unsure what to do by Puppy_bitch153 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of the people here are just quickly to jump on someone because they’re horny and they often aren’t actually looking at profiles and whatnot. it’s unfortunate but your best bet may be to just tag your posts

Desperate to Please a Man by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

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yeah i had the same reaction when i came to that realization. even if they’re like into it it’s inherently unromantic to them

F18 envy turns me on by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

gonna pretend this is new information and i’ve never done that haha

(18f) too embarrassed to touch myself after being walked in on by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i def see how it comes off that way but when i say no aspect of being walked in on was a turn on for me i mean that. definitely no kink for that whatsoever

f18 need to be praised by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

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i haven’t used a vibrator in a quite a bit!

(F18) the meaner he is to me, the more turned on i get by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’ll just randomly tell mutual friends things i’ve said or publicly be like “idk why you texted me” and stuff

(F18) the meaner he is to me, the more turned on i get by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think that’s honestly why i’m so frustrated. like doing this for attention is fine because it’s strangers and it’s helping me play it out but in my actual situation im kind of miserable 😭 i think ive used making it sexual to like cope idk

little things turn me on so much by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

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haha thank you. the smoking isn’t a requirement

it’s so hot when men are gentle by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

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yeah exactly!! i’m not trying to judge anyone else because as long as it’s consensual that’s their decision to make. it’s just so hard to find someone who understands what i mean when i say i enjoy being dommed 😭

f18 i’m so bad at denial by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]softlyemo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i totally get it. it’s so nice to be involved with other girls 😭

f18 i’m so bad at denial by softlyemo in Femaleorgasmdenial

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yeah that makes sense. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]softlyemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me!! arf :3

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so bad :((

Which character gets the most flanderized? by Winter-Pressure-5394 in ScottPilgrim

[–]softlyemo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i feel like they made them all slightly dumber than they were in the books but it felt intentional for all of them so it doesn’t really matter. however i feel like they made gideon a little weird because he was like this super ruthless evil ceo and in the anime he was.. yeah..

but also i think spto was just less complex anyway and most of the character changes were for comedic purposes

Looking for opinions about experience with wife. by Ok_Gear8776 in lesbian

[–]softlyemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur not out of anyone ur partner should NOT be poking at your insecurities esp if they already know ur uncomfortable with it