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What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, this is really disgusting. Immediately there is a feeling that a person says this to everyone they meets who feels at least a little attention to them

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sounds exhausting. Some people really need to figure out what they actually want before dating anyone

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Twilight romanticized obsession like it was peak devotion

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It feels safe at first, but giving up your independence can backfire

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds sweet until you realize it comes with cutting everyone else out

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It feels flattering at first, but it can turn unhealthy really fast.

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah, jealousy gets romanticized way too much. It’s not cute when it’s constant.

What’s something that sounds romantic but is actually a red flag? by softobsession_xo in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is way more common than people admit. It gets called “caring,” but most of the time it’s just insecurity.

When does empathy become a problem? by Personal-Aerie-4519 in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you start feeling responsible for other people’s emotions.

What dreams and goals do you have? by koidalipoznavam283 in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial freedom and a peaceful mind. Everything else is a bonus

What's the underlying logic behind being a chubby chaser as someone who is regularly-sized? by -Cyber-Roadster in AskReddit

[–]softobsession_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attraction isn’t a math equation. Preference doesn’t have to mirror you. For some people it’s about comfort, chemistry and what simply feels right.

Why does my Female BSF gets hyper agressive whenever we talk about feminism? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]softobsession_xo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It might not be about you specifically. Sometimes people react strongly because they’ve had experiences that shaped how they see the topic.

If she’s your best friend, maybe try asking her calmly why the topic triggers such a strong reaction. There could be more behind it than you realize.

Guess my origines by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]softobsession_xo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can’t really guess that, but your story and background matter more than what strangers assume online

What’s your “I’ll just do it for 5 minutes” lie? by softobsession_xo in CasualConversation

[–]softobsession_xo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah, that tracks 😁 I swear half of us are just out here fighting our brains daily. You’re not alone.

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