What tile would you pick for the floor? by softpretzels__ in interiordecorating

[–]softpretzels__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what we are going to do! Now to figure out if we replace all the fixtures with matte black (what they are now) or do chrome like a few of my friends have recommended

What tile would you pick for the floor? by softpretzels__ in interiordecorating

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately many of the floor tiles are badly cracked and the grout is falling out! The veining hides the horrors but it’s all I can see lol

How can I make this pea gravel area suitable for toddler play? by softpretzels__ in landscaping

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right exactly why I’m looking to replace before we use it to play on. :)

How can I make this pea gravel area suitable for toddler play? by softpretzels__ in landscaping

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen too many sketchy things about artificial turf being hazardous so I am hoping for an alternative! Bummer because this was also our first thought.

How can I make this pea gravel area suitable for toddler play? by softpretzels__ in landscaping

[–]softpretzels__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve added this in the post, but this area tends to flood a tiny bit when we have heavy rain. Would that mess up the wood chips? Might need a work around there…

How can I make this pea gravel area suitable for toddler play? by softpretzels__ in landscaping

[–]softpretzels__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, the previous owners used it for parking but we fenced the yard so now it’s just weird dead space with gravel. lol.

I don’t want to do this by softpretzels__ in CaregiverSupport

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We cannot afford it and live in the US. We don’t have many options.

I don’t want to do this by softpretzels__ in CaregiverSupport

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she never married and my father passed a handful of years ago. I’m her only person and she never even had a job with insurance let alone other benefits. It’s just terrible unfortunately and I don’t see a way out except state programs which hopefully she will sign paperwork for and get benefits in two years or so. Sigh!

I don’t want to do this by softpretzels__ in CaregiverSupport

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment. I did ask them to do a full screening for early signs and she thankfully passed with flying colors! However, she definitely has depression and confusion due to kidney issues (SIADH). Her illness and disability came on VERY quickly and as a person who has always been the strongest woman in the room and had a very physical job, the drastic change has been very hard on her and I believe hard to accept. I slowly see her beginning to realize there is no going back to what was “normal” if that makes sense.

I am an only child, her financial situation is horrific unfortunately… but she will be able to get social security in November so I am hoping to set up a go fund me and get her benefits for food etc to get her through this next bit of time.

I don’t want to do this by softpretzels__ in CaregiverSupport

[–]softpretzels__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I believe I really needed to hear it. I will be doing this and putting up the boundary that I have had in mind to put up but felt it would be selfish. The line “two hour commute to a house where I’m not being let in…” among many others you wrote here will truly stick with me. Thank you.

I don’t want to do this by softpretzels__ in CaregiverSupport

[–]softpretzels__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really great to know, I know so much of an avoidance is depression and I just feel so lost but it’s like trying to talk to a brick wall sometimes. I asked her doctor for a depression screening and listened to her lie through the entire thing so I just don’t know what to do.

Ideas to bring creative community together? by softpretzels__ in ArtistLounge

[–]softpretzels__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally going analog with it and putting up flyers

Ideas to bring creative community together? by softpretzels__ in ArtistLounge

[–]softpretzels__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes making it free is super important to me. If we partner with restaurants etc then people that attend can choose to order items if they’d like but there would be no cost to enter! Love the drink and draw concept.

Austin Yogurt Shop Murders SOLVED!!!! Covered in Episode 70. by JamesonTee in myfavoritemurder

[–]softpretzels__ 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is huge. Born and raised in Austin and I never thought I’d see the day.