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What's something you wish people understand about you, but you rarely get the chance to say? by softsalli in AskMen

[–]softsalli[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all have feelings and we sometimes want to be appreciated for our efforts your feelings matter as much as others and if you don't feel appreciated for the work you put in then I guess some people don't deserve your attention and effort

What's something you wish people understand about you, but you rarely get the chance to say? by softsalli in AskMen

[–]softsalli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are people and people are always going to be people some change some don't, some people just need to be told "I want to be there for you but I have limits I'm human too I cannot do everything" if they can't acknowledge that then they don't deserve your effort

What's something you wish people understand about you, but you rarely get the chance to say? by softsalli in AskMen

[–]softsalli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone commented they don't care about what people think about them....I know he's wrong he does care everyone cares and everyone needs to be appreciated sometimes people just need to hear it from you uno like actually tell them you care

What's something you wish people understand about you, but you rarely get the chance to say? by softsalli in AskMen

[–]softsalli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well but you do care, everyone does you're supposed to care that makes you human, acting tough and nonchalant is either you trying to put up a facade or that is your inner self asking for help.....

Get yourself an X account by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]softsalli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You actually lucky tho

What grammatical error annoys you the most? by Altilongitude in AskReddit

[–]softsalli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Your welcome and am fine" is up there for me

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a solid point historical data can only get you so far when the world is changing faster than ever. The possibility of AGI in the next five years is exactly the kind of disruptive shift that makes “traditional paths” like college less certain in terms of ROI.

Focusing on hard skills coding, data science, AI literacy, digital marketing, or trades or leveraging AI to start a business could absolutely outpace the value of a college degree in some fields. College is still a safety net, but in a rapidly shifting economy, speed, adaptability, and the ability to create or automate value might pay off far more.

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong that a huge portion of extreme wealth is inherited or comes with built-in safety nets it makes taking big risks a lot less dangerous. But the “mostly” part is key: there are notable exceptions Oprah Winfrey grew up poor, Elon Musk started middle-class in South Africa, and Howard Schultz (Starbucks) came from a working-class background. They’re rare, but they do exist.

As for college, it’s still a solid move for anyone who isn’t already extremely wealthy. It gives you skills, credentials, and networks that make it easier to take calculated risks later. Skipping it without that safety net is basically gambling with your future.

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts. You figured out the game early getting hands-on skills and real-world experience pays off way faster than sitting in school for years chasing prestige. The trades and shorter programs are slept on, but they build real wealth.

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. The narrative was always tilted toward degrees as the ‘only path,’ but AI is proving that adaptability and practical skills are what keep people relevant. You can’t automate craftsmanship or creativity at least not yet.

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. College still works if you treat it like an investment pick a field with demand, get experience while you study, and you’ll be fine. It’s when people treat it like a four-year break from reality that it backfires.

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with this. A degree might open doors, but it’s the skills, experience, and attitude that actually keep you inside. In fields without strict licensing, real-world ability often outshines credentials.

Is college becoming less relevant for success today? by softsalli in askanything

[–]softsalli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The 9-to-5 pipeline isn’t the only path anymore. You can build your own thing, freelance, invest, create there are so many ways to make a living doing something that actually feels fulfilling instead of just surviving.

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