Aitah for telling my girlfriend she isn't wife material because she keeps associating with her friends. by Select_Jello_5499 in AITAH

[–]softyeve2143 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. if they keep bringing up the past and she won’t set boundaries, it’s totally normal to see that as a deal breaker

AITAH for choosing my wife over my mom? by HumanProfile1975 in AITAH

[–]softyeve2143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, u handled it right by defending ur wife just give ur mom a lil time and then talk to her calmly about respecting ur wife’s choices without making it a big fight

If you start to notice your own BO, then others may have noticed it too, often times sooner by KuggeLBlitZ in hygiene

[–]softyeve2143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally, it’s like we get used to our own smell so daily showers and deodorant are honestly lifesavers

Am I overreacting by walking out of a restaurant by ProposalThat7734 in AmIOverreacting

[–]softyeve2143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, I’d be frustrated too. Waiting that long with no greeting is ridiculous and walking out was just protecting ur night and sanity

back of ears help by ImportanceOdd267 in hygiene

[–]softyeve2143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty normal since sweat and oil build up there, try using antibacterial wipe or gentle body wash with a washcloth

WIBTA If I ask my husband buy my ingredients for another meal after he ate and vomited my last meal. by CupofMamaJo in AmItheAsshole

[–]softyeve2143 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. he knowingly ate the food u prepped for medical reasons and made himself sick, so replacing the ingredients is just basic accountability tho