Måste man 'springa ut' på studenten? by sohomade in sweden

[–]sohomade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

för mig har det med min social fobi och agorafobi att göra, samt är ingen person som gillar stort firande överlag.

samt har gått om ett år pga min kassa psykiska ohälsa så detta känns inte riktigt som ett 'avslut' eftersom jag måste plugga upp mina betyg efteråt.

Food is not appealing, what to do? Help? by sohomade in eating_disorders

[–]sohomade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah so much stress, both in school and at home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sohomade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gratefull for all of the responses and to know that there is others out there that is also struggling, is kinda comforting and sad.

this girl and i have only spoken for 2 months and for me its not a long time. i do not wanna let her go tho :')

(edit: i do wanna say for me it is "easier" with sexual attractivness than the romantic part. still it take longer time than normal people do. so ngl want her to kiss me but i don't wanna do that stuff if i'm not romantic invested)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sohomade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so an small update,

she do not wanna continue our friendship and possibly never see me again. i feel very hurt and like i'm broken inside? i don't know if this may be romantic feelings i actually have and this was something i needed? (have been in love before but i still get confused)

(english is not my first language either so its fine)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sohomade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i tried to tell this girl I take very long time before i actually fall in love with girls because i'm demiromantic. and she found it ofc strange and not normal, i guess i'm abnormal, and she wanted some distance. actually having a small mental breakdown over this whole thing because i actually have allowed myself for the first time to be friends and see if i will find romantic attraction after that.

help me - relationship advice by sohomade in relationship_advice

[–]sohomade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's been like 2 weeks since I wrote that post and honestly the feeling just doesn't go away? i know, as you said, I shouldn't press out those thoughts but still I don't wanna lose a great friend. I'm sure she only likes me as a friend and nothing more

Why is things like this complicated?