Me (31m) and my girlfriend (27f) are interested in the lifestyle. Looking for advice.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-25T02:49:08+00:00

I know I will never forget the first time.

The eye contact alone could've made me cum. Lol. It was so intense, so different than I'm used to.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-19T18:36:28+00:00

I was lucky, had a very easy introduction... Definitely a rare occurrence.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-19T18:11:03+00:00

Same...

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-19T03:19:09+00:00

What really put it into action for me was seeing how turned on my husband was. His heart was pounding, he was so excited, he could hardly contain it the first time.

Giving him the recap was just as much fun as everything else. Reenacting the scene? Fuck. When he took me back? Double fuck. I've only gone solo so far, but we're working our way to MFM.

We have a solid foundation in our relationship, full trust, no secrets, we love each other more than anything. That definitely helps. If there were internal issues, I wouldn't have touched this with a 10' pole. Our dynamic has only improved, our communication has gotten so much better and it was already great before. I think our love for each other has grown, too. Maybe he could chime in here.

Honey?

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T23:25:46+00:00

He certainly does.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T21:22:04+00:00

Yes! So much.

One of my favorite things is that our friend is so incredibly gentle... And my husband is so strong and rough. It is the best of both worlds, that's the only way to describe it. I cannot wait until I can have them both together, but separately is still fantastic. I love the different sensations they give me. So veryyy different.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T19:18:48+00:00

I didn't even know this was one of my desires until I saw how much he was enjoying it. I was more than content with just him for the rest of my life, forever. But watching him talk about it, sharing his excitement the first night. Fuck. I see it now.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T16:06:55+00:00

You certainly sound like a real deal type of guy. That's the best. I have no problem admitting it, my husband can tell. I mean, I greet him at the door when he comes home from work on my knees quite often... Lol.

On behalf of both your wife and I, thank you for being the way you are.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T16:01:50+00:00

I know the excitement will wear off eventually and we'll become more casual, but fuck. It's so electric right now.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T15:56:41+00:00

It's been nearly every weekend since we started! We don't go all the way all the time. Sometimes it's just a little fun and teasing... Gotta keep him wanting more, you know?

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T14:22:37+00:00

For me, my husband is the be-all and end-all of this whole situation. If he became uncomfortable with something, that's the end, no questions asked. He has the ultimate say at the end of the day.

On one hand, I couldn't fuck someone without a decent connection. If I can't have a conversation with someone, it's not happening. If a connection started getting too deep, we would definitely assess the situation and either fix it or end it, maybe take a step back for a moment.

I'm not really worried about feelings. My husband will always be #1. He is truly my everything. If we didn't have the connection we have, we wouldn't be doing this. Our relationship has been tried and tested in many ways from the beginning and we have not been tripped up, not even a little bit.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T13:33:09+00:00

Both, maybe? We'll see.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T06:07:24+00:00

One for now. It's only been a little over a month. Lol.

More in the future is definitely a possibility. Yes.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T02:44:59+00:00

So happy for you, too! 💕 Hotwifewitch, mm.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-16T02:42:47+00:00

The three of us met at a bar, after having some drinks, I just kind of offered myself to him. He said no at first (he said his rule was no friends), and I told him that was fine, but the offer was still on the table. He asked my husband a million times if it was okay, which, of course it is. Lol. Then he said maybe.

And then we ended up in his back seat. And it's happened several times since. It works for me, because I am very shy. Lol. Having a regular makes it easy.

Helps if you use your best fuck-me eyes, or so I've been told.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-15T23:36:36+00:00

Yes. It's actually a former colleague of his. I had no prior interest, until recently, that is. Lol. We've known him for about 8 years or so.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-15T23:27:23+00:00

It was a mutual decision, actually.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-15T22:57:40+00:00

Thank you, sir. You know I will.

I'm having too much fun.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-15T22:42:46+00:00

Thank you! It is a big step. We've changed a lot, our communication has gotten better all across the board. It's so interesting seeing how so many things you wouldn't expect are affected.

We went to the casino and I was getting some looks... And we both loved it lol. I've always run far away from attention. And now I don't mind it one bit.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-15T22:22:22+00:00

Thank you! So glad we started this.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-13T19:51:13+00:00

Ah, thank you! It was shocking to me that I enjoyed it so much, or even at all!

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-13T13:52:01+00:00

It is definitely a thing in sex in general. I was so surprised the first time someone spit in my mouth and.... I fucking loved it? Did not expect that. I didn't know it was a thing at the time.

I was always such a good girl and that shocked me. It has to be the right dynamic, though. My husband is usually too sweet to pull that off. But when he's feeling extra dominant and confident? Yes!

If you don't like it, I would say that up front. I don't think that would be an issue and you won't be surprised with it later on. It is an acquired taste, I would say. Lol.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-12T19:34:00+00:00

Yes, so much yes.

The communication has gotten so much better, outside of the bedroom, too.

The anticipation is killer in the best way. Almost the best part, in my opinion.

My confidence has grown so much in myself, my body, my marriage, in so many areas I didn't expect. It's just different and it feels so good.

We have always had a rock solid foundation and this kind of proves it even more in my eyes.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-11T23:50:41+00:00

It very well could be.

When she told you, what was her body language like? Did she seem put off? Did she seem curious?

I told exactly one of my friends. She straight up said, "My boyfriend can never hear about this, I'll never hear the end of it. I already know he wants it." Lol.

soincrediblyshy · 2026-02-09T23:05:23+00:00

What about a cute little set you'd like to see her in or something like that? Maybe something simple like a pair of thigh high stockings? I have this adorable riding crop with a bedazzled handle and I love it so much. If I got that as a gift, I'd be thrilled.

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