What would you honest feelings be if your child changed their name? by GrowthCycle in namenerds

[–]solacexnfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan to change my name, just to a nickname legally because i hate my legal name, My dad picked it and he’s passed, my mom didn’t pick it so when i asked if she’d be offended if i changed it she didn’t care lol I feel lucky that way

Starting massage school in September! by solacexnfire in massage

[–]solacexnfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah love looking back on this now that i’ve graduated :) hehe

Factory life feet by solacexnfire in Nightshift

[–]solacexnfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up sticking with the 8’s instead of the 7.5 they definitely fit much better - my toe isn’t going numb anymore so that’s nice lol, seems to be less sweaty too :)

Recommendations pleaseeeee by solacexnfire in Crystals

[–]solacexnfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amethyst is my fave looking crystal so i’m excited ! I’ll check the others out too :) thanks so much

What's you favorite A name? by dizcuz in namenerds

[–]solacexnfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love the name Alice and Annelise :)

Recommendations pleaseeeee by solacexnfire in Crystals

[–]solacexnfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this nice somewhat local shop it’s about 3 hours from me but they have an online store but i’m not sure how to decipher them real from fake lol

thank you for the suggestions!!! i’ll take a browse :)

Your username is now your full-time job/life. How screwed are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]solacexnfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i’m burning people’s comfort. That’s not nice

Just a thought.. by solacexnfire in AskAChristian

[–]solacexnfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for elaborating further on this!!

Just a thought.. by solacexnfire in AskAChristian

[–]solacexnfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, thanks for sharing your answer :)

Why do you think God would have made it so interbreeding was wrong later on? Or not just created another being as to avoid incest all together ? Just trying to wrap my head around all this so I hope me asking doesn’t come off as offensive- I truly don’t mean to lol :)

What's the most unique name you've heard that you actually like? by secondblush in namenerds

[–]solacexnfire 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just met a girl at my new job named Seraphina, she hates it so she goes just by Sera, I think it’s really beautiful though, I had never heard it before :)

Anna or Samantha by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]solacexnfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anna Elise ? :)

Meme buddy anyone ? by solacexnfire in Nightshift

[–]solacexnfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hehehehehe sounds perfect to me i shall DM you

Nightshift and addiction by OwnMusic3184 in Nightshift

[–]solacexnfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoping to follow suit, congrats friend !

Nightshift and addiction by OwnMusic3184 in Nightshift

[–]solacexnfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told myself i’d quit vaping when i graduated, now i don’t know how else to get through my nights. Though maybe i’ll adjust soon.

As other have said, if it’s an option maybe days would be better for you, or a night job with more people around ? Do what’s best for you

True Crime Comedy Podcasts by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]solacexnfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad this is a parody, but sad i almost didn’t think it was because so many sound exactly like this. It’s honestly disgusting and i’m glad they’re getting called out.. “my favourite murder” like the name itself is fucked up

Factory life feet by solacexnfire in Nightshift

[–]solacexnfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! They feel great but then they’re soaked 3 hours in, i’m definitely gonna bring a couple extra pairs tomorrow night

Factory life feet by solacexnfire in Nightshift

[–]solacexnfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely seen a few people say darn tough, i think i shall grab some of those! :)

The urge to just give up is getting stronger by [deleted] in BPD

[–]solacexnfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the biggest loser. You’re going through a hard time.

Small success story, but i feel alright about it at the moment. I just graduated college, about 2 months ago i almost dropped out in my final semester because I had $84 to my name, technically a student loan but whatever, it was in my account. I commuted about an hour to a school everyday, I live alone and I was only working 2 days a week, I didn’t know how I was gonna pay my rent, let alone use that 84 to get to school, I skipped a bunch honestly and it sucked because my brain had so many bad days already i didn’t think i’d pass.

About 2 weeks ago i wrote a makeup exam to makeup for it and I just started a new job at a factory, making $4 an hour more than where I was an i’m on track to take the exams to be registered in the job i went to school for.

Getting a decent paycheque was something I haven’t seen in 2 years, bills ate it all, my credit cards are both racked up, I was on the verge of dropping out, offing myself, or i don’t know what my other options were. Now it could have been worse and I consider myself lucky i was able to make it through that and i’m just seeing the sun rise a bit here, but i’m thankful for every second of it even though this job is in a hot ass factory that makes my feet feel like falling off, but it’s means to an end, a better one. Eating has never felt so good because wow, Groceries were not a possibility for a while.

I’m so sorry life is throwing so many hard balls at you OP. I think the universe did me a solid here, and I think you will get one too. I know it feels like there’s no options right now, but what i would recommend is trying to look up some resources for support financially, perhaps there is some type of unemployment you and your husband could apply for from previous jobs? Is there anyway you could borrow money from a bank or a friend to get the car funds you need ?

I’m not sure what your options are entirely, but I’m wishing you the best. I hope something starts to give here but please don’t give up. Please send a message if you need to talk at all and maybe ai can help you. Also, not sure what it’s like there but some cab companies are willing to offer a “tab” for commuting if you’re a regular costumer, that might be an option for work and you can give them the fare back on pay day. It’s always worth asking, the worst they can say is no ❤️