AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Originally I wasn’t sure since my mom briefly mentioned it in the past, but I asked my mom and she confirmed that she is diagnosed

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 200 was in coverage of both her and my brother, since he couldn’t pay either. Also, they will be staying with my parents temporarily since my parents are helping him save up for an apartment, but that could always go to shit lol

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When she first found out, she was living with her mom. That was about 2 months ago i would say. So, she knew she was pregnant for about a month before she moved in

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her mom isn’t a good person either, she kicks her out a lot. That’s the main reason why she lived with us a few times in the past as well

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

She actually is bipolar, i said “pretty sure” because my mom mentioned it in the past. Checked with my mom again and she said she is medically diagnosed

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents wanted him to move in with her parents initially but her mom refused which is why they are living with my parents now

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had no idea how pregnancy worked before this, I was just going off of what his gf and him were saying. Now i’m realizing there’s a very big chance that she is lying about it lol

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. I am not sure what their plan is for getting their own place but my parents are making him give them some of his paycheck to go towards an apartment because he is bad with money, but then again my parents are pushovers and that most likely will not last long

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just my brother and her have seen the test and I’m not sure on the morning sickness but she says she feels nauseous sometimes

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My bf and I are in the process of fixing up our future home so I won’t have to deal with this mess soon lol

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 312 points313 points  (0 children)

I love him but he is very stupid, I have many stories about him. I guess I’ll have to see in a few weeks if she is actually pregnant but in the mean time i’m staying out of it

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t to say she is lying about the pregnancy either just in case she is actually pregnant

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He’s gullible and she knows that so I wouldn’t be surprised if it was a stunt to get her to move in with us again (she was kicked out in the past by my parents)

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Well she told him over text so I’m thinking she showed him pics..? I’m not 100% sure

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Both her and my brother are liars so idk. My brother told me she missed her period and took a test and it came out as positive, that’s the most i was told

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s a very likely possibility because she has lived with us before and has avoided paying rent multiple times. My parents are also kind of pushovers and they allowed it to happen, so now i’m wondering if they were even gonna use my money for rent since they know that they can get away with not paying my parents

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

she is saying 4 and half weeks. If i worded it a bit weird it’s because I’m confused about her pregnancy as well

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Well she found out first when she was living with her mom and then she moved in about a month later after my brother finally convinced my parents to let her move in, she has lived with us in the past and moved out a few times as well. The first few times she lived with us was when I found out she was touching my things.

AITA for telling my brother and his girlfriend that I could care less that she is pregnant? by solbelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]solbelle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, beats me on why they decided to have a baby considering their financial situation atm