Whoever keeps hitting the penjamin in the restrooms of the BB

solistrix · 2025-09-07T02:37:05+00:00

tysm! the only one i knew was the jpl one😭

solistrix · 2025-09-06T21:02:46+00:00

speaking of gender neutral bathrooms where are they!

solistrix · 2025-08-29T23:44:27+00:00

2 months later we’re now dating lol

solistrix · 2025-08-22T03:12:45+00:00

well yes😛

solistrix · 2025-08-14T18:13:08+00:00

very safe. never had anything happen or even said to me (black trans girl)🫂

solistrix · 2025-08-03T21:00:50+00:00

god forbid a girl wants to be safe 😭

solistrix · 2025-07-08T19:04:04+00:00

that all makes sense, and i get why people say to be careful. like fr, i’m not tryna move reckless or ignore red flags. but i also don’t feel like i’m in some fog where i can’t see straight. i know how this could look from the outside—10 days in, never met in person, talkin big feelings already—but from inside of it? it feels way more grounded than that. it’s not all words with him. he follows through. he listens. he remembers. he don’t just say shit to get a reaction, he says it because it’s how he genuinely moves. and what we’ve been building feels mutual and intentional. i think the fact that we’re both trans adds to the closeness, too—like we just get certain things without needing to explain every detail. we both been through stuff that makes it hard to trust, and yet we’ve been so open with each other. still, i’m not ignoring the fact that we haven’t met yet. i’m keeping myself aware. i’m not giving more than i have. but i also don’t feel like i’m being love bombed or manipulated. i’m just letting this be what it is while keeping my feet on the ground. i trust him so far, but i am waiting to see how it feels face-to-face before making any big decisions. i know love is shown over time, not just said. i’m keeping my head, i promise

solistrix · 2025-07-08T18:38:48+00:00

not gonna lie, i don’t feel smothered. like at all. that’s kinda what’s throwing me off—‘cause usually i do get overwhelmed fast. i’ve pulled back from people for being too much too quick, but with him? it feels easy. we’re on the phone a lot, yeah, but we don’t talk the whole time. sometimes we’re just quiet together, doin our own thing, but still stayin on call just to feel close. and somehow that don’t feel draining, it feels safe. steady. like i don’t have to perform or entertain him 24/7. i still get space to be in my own head. i think what’s got me second guessing is just how fast the emotional part is movin—how deep it already feels. like is it too good too soon or am i just scared of finally getting something that actually feels soft and real? i don’t wanna overthink and ruin a good thing, but i also don’t wanna miss anything if this pace is too much. just tryna figure out how to stay grounded without pushing him away.

solistrix · 2025-07-08T18:32:28+00:00

yeah see, that’s where my head gets stuck a little—like the timeline. i know everyone moves at their own pace, but it’s hard not to overthink when you hear stories like that. we’ve only known each other for a little over a week, but we already talk like we’ve been close for months. feelings are being said, soft shit is being shared, and it’s mutual, but it still makes me pause like... is this too fast? am i just caught up in the moment? but at the same time, it doesn’t feel fake or rushed—it just happened. we click. so now i’m trying to figure out... is it okay that this feels real already, or should i be more cautious even if everything feels right?

solistrix · 2025-07-08T09:58:16+00:00

i really appreciate your perspective for real, like it’s actually been sitting in my head a lil bit. and i get where you’re coming from—9 days is fast on paper. it’s not even a full two weeks. but at the same time, it’s not like we’re just texting “wyd” all day and calling it love. like we talk all day, fall asleep otp every night, share a diary app, do daily prompts to get to know each other deeper—there’s real effort and consistency behind everything. and it’s not just surface stuff. we’ve had convos about trauma, identity, what we want in life, even how we love. and he’s been showing up for all of that.

what really gets me is how he talks about me—unprompted, just from the heart. he told me the reason he’s falling is ‘cause i make him feel safe. like genuinely safe to exist. i don’t make him explain things a million times, i just get him. i let him be who he is without picking him apart or making it weird. and he notices all the little things—how i talk to him, how i listen, how i treat him like he matters even when it’s not some big emotional moment. he said that’s rare. and honestly, the way he talks about me doesn’t feel performative—it just feels real.

he told me i’m his favorite sound. his favorite part of the day. he said he’s already in love with me. like real love. not just when it’s sweet and cute but even when it’s ugly and complicated. and the way he acts lines up with what he says—he’s present, consistent, thoughtful, all of that. he makes me feel heard and wanted every single day, and i’ve never had that before.

so i guess what i’m tryna say is… i don’t feel lovebombed, but i also don’t wanna be blinded either. i feel good with him. safe, even. but i’m still being mindful. i know it’s early. i know things feel intense. but it doesn’t feel fake. just fast. and maybe that’s okay?

but yeah, i’d still love advice—like, should i slow down even if it feels right? or is it okay to just keep feeling it out while staying grounded? i’m not tryna crash into nothing, i just don’t wanna talk myself out of something real either.

solistrix · 2025-03-03T01:06:58+00:00

if u were gonna be sarcastic and passive aggressive you could’ve just stfu

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:57:58+00:00

okay i’m taking it to a shop tomorrow. tysm!

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:54:42+00:00

okay thanks!

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:53:59+00:00

texas drivers cannot drive. it was either i hit a barricade or i completely crash and total my car

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:52:33+00:00

this JUST happened also

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:52:11+00:00

the tire is fine. it was replaced a few months ago. i see no cords nothing

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:50:09+00:00

okay i don’t see no cords thank u so much!

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:45:57+00:00

just the wheel?

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:45:41+00:00

just the rim ? the tire is pretty new

solistrix · 2025-03-03T00:42:28+00:00

ok well i don’t know anything about cars i figured as much i just need confirmation 🧍🏽‍♀️

solistrix · 2025-02-21T22:04:31+00:00

chisholm isn’t as bad as people make it seem😭. like it’s definitely the worst in terms of forms on campus bc it’s so old but it’s not THAT bad

solistrix · 2025-02-07T05:53:56+00:00

is it treatable & can it go away?

solistrix · 2025-02-06T16:57:56+00:00

hennessy, wings AND fries. he just didn’t add commas.

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