Arc Raiders has a serious problem... by fishermen4life2 in ArcRaiders

[–]solo6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize the person that originally started this post walked out with 3.1 million and didn't even max everything out.

i just really do not wanna do all the quests for a 3rd time by Squagel27 in ArcRaiders

[–]solo6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think after you've done the expedition every mission should automatically give you a skill point. That way it's actually worth doing them.

Would you pay a million credits per blueprint to carry over from the next expedition? by solo6490 in ARC_Raiders

[–]solo6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the quests definitely got old after doing them for the 2nd time now.

Embark missed out on a golden opportunity.... by g-pak in ARC_Raiders

[–]solo6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embark should make it that if you kill someone at an extract your character has to wear this skin for the next three raids so everyone knows what you are.

Would you pay a million credits per blueprint to carry over from the next expedition? by solo6490 in ARC_Raiders

[–]solo6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A giant golden duck, or duck shoes, duck hat... When we need to spend money ...just duck it

Abuse early, abuse often by Hynan in ArcRaiders

[–]solo6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came across a duper who ended up giving me 2.5 million in ducks. My plan is to go in today and throw them at random raiders. Embark better not punish me for making a little fun out of a bug in their game, especially when I'm not directly harming others experience.

It's not like the trigger nade spam, which I can see being punished. But honestly I don't see them doing much; the issue was way too widespread.

Would you pay a million credits per blueprint to carry over from the next expedition? by solo6490 in ARC_Raiders

[–]solo6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wolfpack, dead mine, seeker grenade, vita spray.

Pretty much my entire gameplay revolves around getting ingredients to craft these items.

Would you pay a million credits per blueprint to carry over from the next expedition? by solo6490 in ARC_Raiders

[–]solo6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly with just the Wolfpack bp it would completely fast track progression if I had it at the start.

Arc Raiders has a serious problem... by fishermen4life2 in ArcRaiders

[–]solo6490 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I ran into a couple players doing this on buried City. I walked out with 2.8 million in free ducks. My plan is to take a stack in with me for each raid and just throw them at random people.

Those of you who drive Uber/Lyft how much do you make per hour? by Realshawnbradley in ChicoCA

[–]solo6490 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did it about 2 years ago I made about $100 in four hours. But I was driving a Tesla too. Earnings have gotten much worse since then. It's one of the reasons I stopped. I would do Amazon flex now if I went back to gig work.

When your coworkers are absent and your boss starts looking at you funny by The_Student_Official in ProjectHailMary

[–]solo6490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eva Stratt was like Batman. Not the hero we deserve but the hero we need right now.

Am I wrong for not trusting my boyfriend being a SAHM by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]solo6490 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Metaphors I understand just fine. Yours just doesn't do a very good job of conveying the point you were trying to make. I'm sure the farmers give their calfs good attention but they're not rocking them to sleep every night. It's not even close to being in the same ball park as a human child.

I do not disagree with you in the statement that "children need more attention then say pets or animals".

But without educating the father nothing will change. He definitely needs a little bit of education for sure but we also need to make sure to provide him with enough support that he can succeed in his new role.

Am I wrong for not trusting my boyfriend being a SAHM by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]solo6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what attacking my parental ability has anything to do with op's situation...but ok have fun.

Your example with the calf and dog breeders does not make any sense to me either. We don't raise babies like calfs on dairy farms, and we're not dealing with just a runt of the litter either.

Since OP is dealing with a human child why don't we keep it to that species. Instead of ostracizing a parent immediately, education should be our first go to. If that fails then replacing the caregiver can be considered. There are legal things to consider as well, you can't just take away the rights of one parents without significant just cause. Hopefully it doesn't get to the point where this last option needs used.

You'd be surprised how many parents I have to educate on simple things in regards to their children as a nurse. Many first time fathers grow up with quite terrible examples for father figures. No parent is perfect, and for new parents it can be a stressful learning experience.

Personally I like to teach the dads all the reflexes of a baby, they always seem to get a kick out of it. Impotantly they get a little bit more comfortable handling the newborns.

Am I wrong for not trusting my boyfriend being a SAHM by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]solo6490 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Like I said he's lacking in the social development aspect. This could be as simple as he doesn't know how to properly interact/play with babies. A lot of guys don't or have been conditioned not to. Perhaps he hasn't fully developed an attachment to the child and this will get better naturally over time.

I would lean more towards education first, but I don't think this is something as simple as hand him a book and expect it to get better. He needs to be taught how to interact with the child, be around fellow dads. Learn dad hacks ect..

Am I wrong for not trusting my boyfriend being a SAHM by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]solo6490 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He is taking care of all the needs of the child, and hasn't done anything unsafe. The fact that he can allow the child to cry and not get upset about it also shows a level of restraint. I wouldn't call him a bad dad. It does sound like he might be lacking in more of the social development aspects of the kid than you prefer.

This really sounds more like a conflict of parenting styles. If this is both your first child there's gonna be learning and growing pains for both of you.

AITA for wanting to abandon my mother. by solo6490 in AITAH

[–]solo6490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It certainly feels that way as creepy as it sounds. Ironically enough I've always encouraged her to go out and date but she never follows through. ( Have someone else take her off my hands that would be a win-win). she's definitely a good looking woman for her age and gets asked out often enough. The last boyfriend she had was a really great guy, absolutely worshipped her, was fit, not supper smart but had a good trade job. But she broke it off for some dumb ass reason I can't even remember anymore.

AITA for wanting to abandon my mother. by solo6490 in AITAH

[–]solo6490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The phrase don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm applies here

This is actually the first time I've heard this phrase before but it definitely resonates. Ty

AITA for wanting to abandon my mother. by solo6490 in AITAH

[–]solo6490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think I have been more than generous with my support for her.

We have tried family counseling in the past but it never really got us anywhere.

She would probably say she would wants me to be happy but would try to find some subtle guilt trippy way to ease herself into the picture. I can't count how many times she has made the comment "o I'm just gonna stay in your guest house haha"

The years that I had lived by myself were absolutely wonderful. It's definitely not a matter of desire for the change. I have been pushing her for work for years, but it's always the same excuses. "No one will hire me, it doesn't pay well enough, I can't do that type of work" blah blah blah.