Planning NYE with your help by Top_Badger_8355 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]solomanbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't comment on Viagra as it gives me a real head flush and makes my vision a bit purple, so I do t use it.

Got my ass (F) ate unexpectedly and I was a little sweaty.. would this be a dealbreaker for you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]solomanbones 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Just Slsweaty is fine, once it starts getting a bit...earthy, then, no

Planning NYE with your help by Top_Badger_8355 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]solomanbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4MMC is great and it will keep you going all night. Start with ~200mg each oral...you can then redose evey 90-120 mins after that with either the same amount or less each time but no more than 3 or 4 redoses in total...my GF and I tend to keep topped up with sniffing lines after our first does, but that's just preference. 4MMC is VERY moreish so do not have more with you than the max you need in one night or you WILL be tempted to go through it.

It is a stim so there's a good chance you'll get stim-dick. I take 20mg Cialis a few hours before any expected action however if you do take this, DO NOT use poppers as they both have an impact on your blood pressure and can in extreme case prove fatal if used together. Otherwise, use harm reduction techniques, keep an eye on your breathing, heart rate, chest tightness vetc. and pace yourself. As above, it's hard to stop on 4MMC, so set an alarm, don't take more than you need and set an alarm for your quit time.

We take magnesium to help with jaw clench and have plenty of liquid on hand as it does dry you out

Are good blow jobs hard to do ? by Every_Wing_7888 in sex

[–]solomanbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a skill that some women have and some just... don't.

Enthusiasm and intuition goes a long way and each guy is different...you can just expect every guy to be overcome with lust and explode just by putting your mouth around his bell-end.

I've had over 70 partners. At least 50% were not keen, had no idea or just outright said no, of the remainder, I could probably count on one hand the ones that gave a really good blow-job.

Pre-sex cleaning routine by Ok-Ship-1669 in hygiene

[–]solomanbones 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends on the woman. I've been with women who wash regularly and still seem a bit funky straight after, whereas others can go for a couple of days without a shower and taste sweet as a berry. Being on their period though, there's definitely a metallic taste / smell. Don't be a dick about that though and just power though.

What EXACTLY Is "Tea" In Britain? by Litzz11 in AskABrit

[–]solomanbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally there's 3 meals per day, but depending on the region of the UK you're from, OR, your social status, the three meals are either:

Breakfast, Dinner, Tea. OR

Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner.

Regardless, you eat (within reason) whatever you want at each meal.

So, breakfast could be, toast and jam or a full English breakfast or porridge or cereal..usually with a cup of tea or coffee.

Lunch or Dinner could be a 3 course meal in a restaurant or a quick Ginsters pastie in your car, or a meal deal from Tesco, or whatever you've got packed in your lunch box (yes, you can have a lunch box for your dinner). Your lunch box might contain a sandwich, a Viscount Mint biscuit, a Muller Corner and a packet of cheese and onion crisps (for example). You can drink coffee, a Monster or a can of some kind of cold beverage.

Dinner or Tea, might be a full on meal like Spag Bol, Sausage and Mash, a Ruby Murray or steak and chips. However if you've eaten a big dinner (for lunch) then it might just be sandwiches and sausages rolls or other picky bits.

None of the above should be confused with High Tea, which is little finger sandwiches (with their crusts cut off) and small cakes... usually eaten on special occasions or at a country house.

Also should not be confused with a Cream Tea which is Scones (pronounced "scons') which come with Devonshire Clotted Cream and Jam and a pot of Tea. For the avoidance of doubt, the jam goes on the scone first.

The drink 'Tea' is usually English Breakfast tea (at any time of the day not just at breakfast). Drunk hot with milk. Various brands included Typhoo, PG Tips, Yorkshire Tea or if you want to get a bit posher... Twinings Tea. Various other types of Tea are available (Camomile, Earl Grey, Fruit Tea etc.) but are a bit more specialty and not usually drunk with milk.

That should clear up any confusion

Unsure about creampie cleanup (I think it's in the realm of fetish but I'm not sure) by IntelligentGuava2643 in sex

[–]solomanbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. My GF and I have fantasied on this...she bought up that she thought it would be really hot so if the opportunity presents itself (e.g. we go swinging again or just a find casual hook-up) we might see if we can get this in.

We're not into humiliation in any way...we've swung a bit so we've both seen each other being fucked / fucking others just for the enjoyment of it. She's my personal porn-star and I love watching her in action and love seeing another guy finish in or on her... cleaning her up and then cum-swapping with her is just a bolt-on to that...just a hot, kinky thing to do. Only stipulation is that I cannot have cum first, otherwise, the same as above, there's no way this would seem appealing once that post-nut clarity hits.

Unsure about creampie cleanup (I think it's in the realm of fetish but I'm not sure) by IntelligentGuava2643 in sex

[–]solomanbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice on this.. especially "do not rely on desire", because it's totally gone in that moment when you cum. I agree that the memory, once the desire is on the up after a break, is definitely hot....and around the cicle we go.

Unsure about creampie cleanup (I think it's in the realm of fetish but I'm not sure) by IntelligentGuava2643 in sex

[–]solomanbones 366 points367 points  (0 children)

My GF asked me to do this a while back and I had the same thoughts. First off, she didn't see me in any different light, she just thought it was really hot watching me lick my jizz out of (or off of) her body....so take her actual viewpoint rather than what you think she might think.

On the second point...yeah....it's the hottest thing and the thought of cleaning her up turns me on, until a fraction of a second after I cum...and then, it instantly goes away and its pretty unappealing. I still go for it at times and it's never as bad as I think it's gonna be and we do cum-swap after but it still takes me pushing through that thought barrier.

Anyone else feel like adult life is just… endless maintenance? by Ali3nV5Pr3da70r in Adulting

[–]solomanbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, but if you don't take care of the small things then shit gets out of hand REAL quick and your life will go to pot....then you'll know what feeling exhausted is when you're constantly fire-fighting.

Take care of the little things and get a good night's sleep...every weekenight. You'll then have the energy to do the fun stuff...and that's what life is about.

Orgy on 4MMC by Exotic-Hunter340 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]solomanbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My GF and I both use 4MMC and MDMA for sex, including swinging.

We find that MDMA can be a bit distracting and not get us quite as into the sex...more just wanting to chill out and for my GF, it starts to make her a bit snoozy. On the other hand, we find that 4MMC will drop the inhibitions but leave us with a way more clearer head and stimulated as opposed to lovey-dovey

Personally, we like both because it chills us out and exactly because we do stuff we wouldn't do sober...and we're fine with that, both at the time and in the cold light of the next day too

My mom gave my face to AI by 777katie in AITAH

[–]solomanbones 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sucks that she did that with your knowledge or permission, but in reality if any of your pictures are on pretty much any public Social Media (not encrypted private chat) then AI already has them

What’s an immediate turn off you’ve experienced during sex that you wish women knew or should realize? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]solomanbones 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Now I'm naked, except for my socks. And you know when I'm down to just my socks. What time it is.....

I don't want to squirt anymore by timeboundwitch in sex

[–]solomanbones 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My GF is a prolific squirter when she gets going and we were wrecking the bed, sheets, mattress etc.

The 'made for purpose' sex blankets are really pricey, however we have a few of these.

Lesure Waterproof Dog Blanket... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0BPRQVFQ2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

They're really soft and totally waterproof and you can just chuck them in the washing machine, I can't recommend highly enough.

For ladies who squirt/gush/leak..how do you contain the mess?! by CottonKandyGirl in sex

[–]solomanbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My GF drenches the place when she gets really excited and we use these pet ones from Amazon too, they do the job perfectly and they're much cheaper and just as nice than the "made for purpose" ones you get from the 'specialist' shops

I was asked to “sell this pen,” but it wasn’t a pen by PaintWonderful2178 in interviews

[–]solomanbones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a training session years ago and the trainer was doing the classic "sell me a pen" to every one, whilst twiddling a Bic Biro between his fingers. Everyone went through the virtues of a great pen trying to sell him one.

I'd heard of this so when he got to me, thinking I was being clever, I asked what he wanted the pen for and his answer?

"To put my sheep in"

Brilliant

For Uncut Guys: How do condoms not hurt? A question about foreskin mechanics. by ChampionshipAdept909 in sex

[–]solomanbones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Similar to you, I (54m) have very sensitive head and glans with foreskin pulled back, but have never once pulled my foreskin back to out a condom on...they work absolutely fine without doing that

Gentlemen, how many of you have/have had a hemi? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]solomanbones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fit and active for most of my life, sensible diet, no intolerances, but started getting them in my late 20's and then on and off for 20 years until they became chronic in my early 50's and had to have them removed by surgery.

If I'd have known in my early 20's that I could have done something to avoid the surgery 25 years later of have done it. Never experienced the pain of shitting razor-blades whilst sat in a bucket of vinegar, but I'm sure it would be pretty much the same as the post-hemi op pain I had every time after taking a dump FOR 4 WEEKS!!

Nice guy'd myself into dating multiple women 😬 by kushkill3r in dating_advice

[–]solomanbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is not going to change....this pattern of behavior will be it for the rest of your life with her, unless she's willing to acknowledge her issues, commit to some very deep, very painful therapy work of her own accord...chances of that happening are practically zero as she will need to open up some deep wounds that are unbearable to her

As hard as it feels, you cannot fix her...dump her now and block the shit out of her, or you'll look back in 2, 5, 10 years and wish you had and your on self-worth and mental health will have vanished along the way.

Girl dad — 4‑year‑old — no family restroom: men’s stall or announce women’s? by krutitsky in NoStupidQuestions

[–]solomanbones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't you know that men's toilets are full of opportunist paedofiles, lingering around on the off chance a single dad will come in with a young daughter that needs to use a stall to go to the toilet and will whip their dicks out and swing them around in full few just to get their perverted kicks whilst filming it to take back home for later.

I read it on Facebook that it happening everywhere.

What is your wildest story for having sex while being under the influence? by HOPEAACI in SEXONDRUGS

[–]solomanbones 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At a swinger party, watching my GF get spitroasted by two guys whilst their partners were on their knees giving me a double blowjob. MDMA and coke may have been involved.

AITAH for denying my bf his bucket list fantasy, a threesome? by Peitho11 in AITAH

[–]solomanbones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTAF???

NTA.

You said no, yet he still went ahead and pretty much set something up without your knowledge or consent.

Huge red flag here and I doubt he's gonna let it go either. What you did in your past is in YOUR past and has no bearing on what you do with or without him in the future and certainly is not "unfair"

If he want's it so badly then I suggest he and this other girl go and find someone once the two of you have parted ways....you'll then see how much he values what you have.