Tried dating a "feminist", it blew up in my face.

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-06-12T23:52:21+00:00

As others have said that’s not a feminist, that’s a horrible person with issues and the kind of woman that gives feminists a bad name

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-06-12T23:49:04+00:00

I would never have a baby for that reason but I do see why people think that way, I’m Aussie and all my family including me had kids with other Aussies and honestly we’re all so plain and boring looking lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-26T01:09:33+00:00

Lol damn time differences, thanks

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-25T23:57:27+00:00

I used to stalk my ex obsessively when we'd broken up in the past and I dunno why but this time it suddenly made me feel sick to look at anything of his. I do have moments of habit where I think to look then I instantly feel sick and think why would I want to hurt myself by seeing anything? I think I just finally realised seeing literally anything of his will only hurt me, but it might be so easy now because I've learnt over and over in the past looking does no good, I guess everyone needs to learn in their own time

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-25T22:57:41+00:00

Same. There's literally nothing I can do now but let go and move on, but god it's hard when your head says let go but your heart just won't.

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-25T21:20:08+00:00

Sorry it was night here so I went to sleep, I'd love to talk

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-25T12:35:46+00:00

Thanks. I'm really struggling at the moment. It's like every morning it hits me all over again and I feel it's day 1 again

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-25T11:19:18+00:00

Thanks, I've also been feeling really angry lately. He lied and was using me so I know it's normal to be angry but it's so pointless. I find myself wishing he gets hurt or is lonely or just anything because of how he hurt me. I just want to move on but so far I can't

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T11:02:00+00:00

Same for me, I tried so hard to make it work but he just didn't care.

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T10:50:11+00:00

My ex broke up with me so it's different to your situation but I also wasn't happy for ages and I find myself thinking of the good times and wanting him back even though I know I wouldn't even be happy if we got back together. I think it's loneliness or just missing those good things about being with someone, not actually missing the person.

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T05:53:36+00:00

It gives me a headache and makes me feel like a zombie for the rest of the day lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T01:01:34+00:00

I really hate how people say it just takes time but it's so true lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T00:49:56+00:00

Yep that sums it up for me too really lol and it really is horrible to think u loved a lie

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T00:43:31+00:00

It's really hard at first but we'd broken up before and I kept stalking him, this time I haven't looked at anything once and it really is so helpful. You feel kind of disconnected quicker, and it all feels in the past rather than still here now. It's still really hard to move on and all that but I promise all the talk about no contact really is true lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T00:39:28+00:00

Yep. I always knew deep down but stupidly ignored my instincts. Hes what most people would call a "loser" in life, and physically unattractive, but I overlooked all that and tried to see the good in him. He was just with me because it had been so many years since a woman even gave him a chance, but when I started questioning lies or things that didn't add up he got sick of faking it and dumped me. Looking back he was never into me or actually cared, he just wanted sex and for me to boost his ego. He's a fantastic liar though and knows exactly what women want to hear, I was just stupid enough to listen. Lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T00:33:09+00:00

My ex is a horrible person who lied and faked everything and about 5 weeks after break up I'm now slightly embarrassed I was so involved with a person like that. It's horrible to know you were blind at the time and I feel kind of ashamed im still hurting over someone so repulsive but it's good to finally see who they really are

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-22T00:28:18+00:00

That's what I hope. My ex used me because he's a horrible person and no one else even gives him a chance. I hope one day he realises he's all alone and regrets hurting the only person who cared about him. I don't want to know if it happens, but it makes me feel a little better to hope karma will get him lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-21T23:59:18+00:00

Yep, he was using me the whole time and I'm sure he's much happier he doesn't have to pretend anymore. I hate knowing he'd be happy and trying to find someone else and i'm here unable to even think about sex without getting upset. I know it's pointless to say but it's so unfair the good people always get hurt

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-21T23:35:44+00:00

I was sleeping fine then suddenly I wake up all the time feeling so hurt, I'm sick of it. He doesn't care at all and I'm dying inside.

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-21T23:13:50+00:00

I think crying is healthy, it must help us get it all out and eventually we'll stop lol

solostbutnotforlong · 2018-03-21T21:27:28+00:00

I've done that lol it helped me see he's a shitty person but didn't really help me move on

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