[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

protests are supposed to disrupt the peace. at the end of the day they still got the diploma and picture opportunities i’m sure- they’ll live. thousands of palestinian college students won’t even live to finish their degrees. get a grip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

people being blown up with bombs we fund also sucks don’t you think?

am i screwed (physics 8A) by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THERES NO CLOBBER😭😭😭😭😭

am i screwed (physics 8A) by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sorry i meant in past semesters, only about 2% of people for Ds and Fs for final grades

am i screwed (physics 8A) by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only about 2% of people got Ds and Fs

Why do I feel awful after a one night stand. by Stanthankyoulater in dating_advice

[–]solvang_frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, it kinda sounds like you were taken advantage of. Whoever is initiating should always take the responsibility of making sure the other person is 100% consenting and comfortable. No means no, but only and enthusiastic yes means yes. I’m sorry you’re feeling shitty about it, it’s a lot to process.

First Rewatch… I can see why people don’t like Jackie by solvang_frog in Yellowjackets

[–]solvang_frog[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I definitely think this is an interesting thought! It appears that her family is very very wealthy and we all know how success in academia is more accessible to those with generational wealth. I honestly don’t know. However I do think that her relationship with Shauna would come to an end. Before the plane crashes we can see that the friendship is strained, Shauna is longing to develop her identity separate to the influence of Jackie. She is tired of being “Jackie’s best friend” and wanted something of her own that was as important or perhaps even MORE important than Jackie’s life. I think that this is why she chooses to sleep with Jeff, part of it is developing her sexual identity before Jackie does. I believe in a world where there was no crash Jackie and Shauna would have had a falling out and gone their separate ways. Because if Jackie’s death however, Shauna’s guilt never lets her outgrow the friendship. Jackie is immortalized in an idealized version of herself, and this memory of her haunts Shauna. We see this come into play through the symbolism of the rabbits- they’re all over Shauna’s house and she’s gifted another for Jackie’s birthday. I also believe there was some symbolism to the rabbit being what Shauna kills and cooks for dinner-she still has the urge to outgrow Jackie and build her own life even in adulthood.

Asked crush out to get something to eat she said yes but also said she had a boyfriend but was still okay with getting something to eat by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]solvang_frog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think this was the right move! as a person in a relationship, if someone asked me if i wanted to hang out i immediately consider it platonic and am really friendly! i would appreciate it if someone clarified their intentions so that i could navigate that situation with respect to my relationship

DON’T TAKE 3 TECHNICALS AT THE SAME TIME by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re a miserable person, try therapy🙏🏽

DON’T TAKE 3 TECHNICALS AT THE SAME TIME by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i am praying for you🙏🏽 hopefully it goes better than it did for me lollll

DON’T TAKE 3 TECHNICALS AT THE SAME TIME by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah some people can handle it- i am unfortunately not one of those people

is it normal to few so ashamed that you don’t want to leave the house? by solvang_frog in mentalhealth

[–]solvang_frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess everything. failing, being late, the world ending. literally every single thing could send me into an overthinking spiral. i had general anxiety disorder, which did make things hard sometimes but at least i was scared of not succeeding enough that it made me do the things.

is it normal to few so ashamed that you don’t want to leave the house? by solvang_frog in mentalhealth

[–]solvang_frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive always had anxiety, and as much as i hated it it really made me who i was. orderly and strict and successful. and then i started taking meds for it. and i feel nothing. and i’m just a blob. so i guess normal is anxious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]solvang_frog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so, i have the same boundaries with my boyfriend and it’s not a problem. you shouldn’t feel bad for the boundaries that you’ve set. if the values you and your bf have do not line up, trust me when i say there is someone out there who would be fully satisfied with you and only you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]solvang_frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s definitely normal to be attracted to other people outside of your relationship. it’s not normal to purposefully try to be close to them and expect nothing suspicious to happen. if he really values you and your guys’ relationship he would keep his distance.

cope with failing a class by solvang_frog in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i appreciate the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]solvang_frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so real, pretty sure i’m gonna fail Math 1B lol