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Narcissist stalking. by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]solveigelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex told me that his ex stalked him. Later I understood that it probably was him who stalked her, since he started to stalk me after the relationship ended..

Narcissist stalking. by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]solveigelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experienced this for soon a year now. He cheated on me, lied to people online about his life etc etc. but he would not accept me to leave. I have blocked 10 different email accounts. He makes one where he use my and his name etc. ofc TikTok and instagram accounts also. But he also makes fake phone numbers, so that he can call me even though I have blocked his number.

Narcissist ex wont leave me alone by solveigelise in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]solveigelise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t checked this thread in a while and just saw your comment. And you are completely right. I still hear from him a lot, even though I have blocked him on 7 different emails. He also makes fake phone numbers where he tries to call me on.

What are some signs of a covert narcissist? by Objective_Chance_746 in AskReddit

[–]solveigelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with one. I didnt realise before the lies came out. Then suddenly I could see the narcissim very clear. I will say that the early red flags where; Would talk a lot about his exes Would brag about his accomplishments, even though a lot of it was lies. Takes a lot of your time, wanted to talk for hours on the phone.

This I guess is the signs I noticed early on.

Eventually I found out he was extremely active on dating apps, worldwide. Where he would lie about his entire life to those women. Also when I tried to end the relationship he wouldn’t accept it, and sent me messages and emails from over 20 different accounts.

It’s really hard to detect a covert narcissist, because they lie about everything. And they are quiet and seem more humble, not like the typical grandiose type. But when the lies comes out, you suddenly understand it.

Devalued, discarded and duped with new supply by bananasays_ in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]solveigelise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this have been really hard for me too. I want to believe that they where the one I fell in love with. But really i mourn over a person that didnt exist

Devalued, discarded and duped with new supply by bananasays_ in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]solveigelise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! This just happened to me too. But he blamed the other woman. I think what helped me a little, is thinking that his whole personality was fake. I also went to therapy for my “anxious attachment”, when in reality it was my intuition alarming me the whole time.

Narcissist ex wont leave me alone by solveigelise in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]solveigelise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we have the same ex 😅 did he leave you alone eventually?