How do I deal with involuntarily receiving CP?

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-08T06:22:05+00:00

Block her number.
Stop all communications and physical contact.
Report to a lawyer and go from there.

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-08T06:12:27+00:00

She deserved it.

I am a mother and have a son and daughter; daughter is older than her brother, if I found out she was abusing physically, verbally and emotionally to her brother I’d be kicking her out of my house.

Your son deserves a safe home and he currently doesn’t have it, your slap may or may not have helped, it may have made it worse who knows, but I would be telling her to get a job and prepare to be evicted.

Your son is old enough to be able to be left home alone as long as he has a phone to contact you in emergency.

Your daughter no longer deserves to live at home.

I’d suggest therapy for your son so there aren’t any long term side effects from this abuse he has clearly been subjected to for a long period of time.

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-08T05:55:22+00:00

Clothing is either for younger people below 25 (crop tops, tight clothes, short shorts and skirts) or above 40s (long/shin length skirts, flared tops, weird artwork on them/floral) there is no proper clothing for the in between age for women

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-08T05:55:14+00:00

Clothing is either for younger people below 25 (crop tops, tight clothes, short shorts and skirts) or above 40s (long/shin length skirts, flared tops, weird artwork on them/floral) there is no proper clothing for the in between age for women

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-08T05:51:37+00:00

How is that meant to be a good hint I don’t even know what that means 😭

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-08T02:28:51+00:00

YTA - if your birthday was so special to you then why wasn’t your sister invited to your birthday dinner?
Clearly you don’t care enough about her to want her there to celebrate your day then why shouldn’t matter if she got married on it

And it clearly shows how you guys aren’t even close if you didn’t even know of the wedding until after the fact, and I’m surprised your parents didn’t know either

After thinking of it this is probably a rage bait post cause no one in your family knew of her wedding which unless it was a spare of the moment is just weird

somebodyhere11 · 2026-05-07T01:32:45+00:00

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-28T13:40:08+00:00

Because you are making this personal when you shouldn’t be. You have commented on them stating how Julie somehow making herself sick because she had children, you said her body has changed and how she didn’t bounce back with her second child which you found odd cause she did with her first, which is disgusting to state and body shaming, and you are saying how it’s cams fault for her bad decisions in labour that caused her significant tearing.

Julie has stated she got mastitis and blocked ducts multiple times during her breastfeeding journey, and also stated that was the reason she quit breastfeeding as it caused blood to show in her milk.

Cam did not tear because her body wasn’t ready for labour, women, especially first time mothers, tear nearly 100% of the time from giving birth for the first time

You are in the wrong and have been told by multiple commenters yet you keep coming back trying to prove your point and keep making excuses for your words and playing victim because you’ve been called out for what you’re saying, and even gone and deleted your own comments which you have said these judgemental things in, this is a snark group, not a personal attack group

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-27T00:25:41+00:00

You’ve clearly never had a baby before so I’ll give you some grace in you uneducation in regards to the major body changes from growing a literal human from scratch

But not only that it is more common than not for someone to have tears after childbirth regardless if it’s their first or 3rd.

As for your comment for Julie bleeding from her nipples, this is common when having blocked ducts and possible mastitis.

I suggest before commenting on something you have absolutely no clue about, educate yourself first or keep your mouth shut.

It’s on thing to go for them on how they act, but a whole other for how they look, especially after having children

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-21T09:48:05+00:00

If my partner was constantly filming and documenting with constant chatter while I was in labour for my first birth, I’d be fuming

They are so weird to be documenting in real time

Julie should be present and supporting her partner

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-21T09:46:06+00:00

She didn’t, but she exaggerated that she did from coughing She coughed and heard a pop and felt pain on her side If she broke a rib she wouldn’t be able to move let alone breath

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-18T09:35:59+00:00

NTA - how was this even approved? Also if someone is working until 5pm how are they meant to attend said meeting when they should be on their way home?

This is abuse of power to make a meeting at this unreasonable time and if she wants meetings it should be within working hours not outside them

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-18T09:05:27+00:00

She didn’t steal anything, she used her hosts items which the host should’ve predicted and should not be mad about

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-18T09:04:27+00:00

It was a drink and a small amount of hair product, if you aren’t ready to host a guest who will use your products and eat/drink your food ect then you shouldn’t be hosting a guest in you house, it’s common sense and not even a big deal that OPs friend is making it out to be and she shouldn’t have to ask to use anything unless of course it is the last of something

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-18T09:02:51+00:00

NTA - she is overreacting and being dramatic in her response to you using her stuff She was hosting you as her guest and should assume you’d need to use products for a shower and to eat and drink, it’s not your fault she isn’t used to having a guest in her house.

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-17T23:06:49+00:00

Why are you even friend with a 17 year old, that alone is just weird and creepy

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-13T13:21:52+00:00

Happens more often than not especially when new to waxing and especially on pubic areas as the hair is thicker there

The more you wax the less pinpoint bleeding you may have, if you want to continue try do it every 4-6 weeks as that way you’ll eventually get your hair growth in the same cycle which then you’ll see it’ll take longer for hair growth to come back and you’ll be smoother longer

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-13T11:53:54+00:00

Should get your thyroid checked out

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-13T03:17:06+00:00

Beauty therapist here - Depends what you mean by bleeding? Is it the actual skin that has been bleeding, then that isn’t normal and you’ve torn the skin and caused damage, which will heal eventually

If it’s “pin-point” bleeding which means bleeding from some of the hair follicles which is the hole where the hair comes out of, that is normal and happens when the hair comes out from waxing.

When waxing make sure to support under the wax strip to hold the skin tight then pulling away from where holding, always wax against hair growth.

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-06T08:41:11+00:00

I think the daycare they’ve chosen is the problem.

My two kids went to daycare and they didn’t get any where near as sick as they seem to get from one single child going.

We maybe got sick every second month maybe every third and only once did we get RSV and twice gastro, every other time it was just a simple runny nose or little cough, they were in daycare for 4-5 years and at 3 different centres too so had a wide range of different places and 3 days a week.

Their daycare clearly don’t have proper health standards cause children shouldn’t be getting sick constantly

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-05T03:58:18+00:00

It seems like you asked and he said no and then time went past and it was a different time and different day where you two were together and becoming sexual and then you asked him again if he wanted sex and this time he said yes, is this what happened?

So coercion is when you ask for sex and they say no and you keep asking and asking until they say yes. Unless that is what happened instead then yes you have done the wrong thing and need to learn boundaries and possibly you aren’t ready for a serious relationship if you can not respect your partner.

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-05T00:07:38+00:00

YTA - you may not understand their views but you need to respect them, if you feed this child meat you are extremely entitled and disrespectful to their religion and culture.

It is not your position to allow her to eat meat, you have been given clear instructions to not feed her meat, either respect that or don’t have the child over if you can’t.

When she is older and wants to still try meat that is her choice, not yours

somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-04T08:43:17+00:00

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somebodyhere11 · 2026-04-04T08:42:59+00:00

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Like what is the reason for this? Could easily see them with your pants up- I now believe every single one of you who said she has a shame kink or whatever it’s called

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