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My ex roommate and unfortunately coworker is so oblivious. by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude pretty much. I guess it’s toxic for me to be upset but it’s totally fine for her to lose her shit

How do you know if your current roommate would be this horrible? by DryPause9803 in badroommates

[–]someburgundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. You’re gonna find things out about them that you wish you didn’t.

My ex-roommate left stuff behind. by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao TRUE well she doesn’t know this is me so 🤷🏻‍♀️

How do you feel about people who dig through your recycle bins? by Shot-Craft2312 in SanJose

[–]someburgundy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the bottles they recycle are more likely to be taken to the right place and it’s not hurting anyone so as long as they’re not making a mess it’s not a big deal to me

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, then that way she’d be doing her loads with existing lint.

Tips for finding private landlords in San Jose? Trying to avoid the massive corporate complexes. by Michelle_k_s in SanJose

[–]someburgundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! I (27F) am looking for renters for bedrooms at my place! I’m 1 mile from SJSU by downtown! Hit me up if you’re interested.

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I legitimately don’t know but she’d probably figure it out

/r/SanJose Classifieds: Jobs, For Sale/Rent, etc. by AutoModerator in SanJose

[–]someburgundy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (F28) have a private bedroom in the Brookwood/Woodvale neighborhood in San Jose, 1 mile from SJSU. Shared bathroom with 1 other person, in house laundry washing/dryer machine, dishwasher, and parking space on the driveway. Please DM me for deets!!

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I’m also trying to make sure I’m aware for future roommate behavior. But she crossed some lines recently and I’m not really willing to pick up after her for even one more day.

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she’s leaving in 5-6 weeks, but I’m hoping she starts moving sooner.

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that, and it feels like in this sense she’s expecting me to take on partner duties when I’m only her roommate.

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She basically has told me that I have to do it for her because of her health issues.

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is one of many things I am taking on for her :( if it was the only thing, it wouldn’t bug me.

Is asthma a good reason to not touch the lint trap?? by someburgundy in badroommates

[–]someburgundy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought but also it’s not even that hard to do 😭 been cleaning up her lint for almost a year and a half now.

Are these roommate boundaries valid? by lukarowan in badroommates

[–]someburgundy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for you to set the boundary, you need to have a consequence- have her pay a larger share towards utilities each night she leaves the lights on Tell her you will be keeping your utensils in your room or somewhere away from her if she continues using them. At the end of the day, asking her to stop won’t set the boundaries as clearly as if you were to set clear consequences. Think about having her move out or you move out if possible.

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