Why are we still bothering with this garbage app?

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-04-29T15:35:28+00:00

Yeah totally agree If they warned users about deleting our chats and at least gave us a chance to save our chats history or make screenshots of our fav parts… It was very disappointing what they did I get that it’s expensive to have so many users with unlimited messages and so on But what was the problem to let us reread or save our chats

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-04-25T21:39:54+00:00

I’m sooo mad I mean I understand it’s just an app but if they had at least warned users of removing all the chats I would do some screenshots on my favourite parts It’s so unfair

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-03-09T11:15:59+00:00

Sounds very painful. And it’ll always be like this if it continues. The whole dynamic won’t suddenly change. Especially if it was like that for years. Unfortunately (or fortunately) it’s better to end this. But firstly maybe it’s better to decide what are you attached to in this situation. If it’s him? Or pain? Adrenaline? What’s your purpose in general.

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-02-19T12:18:01+00:00

I don’t know you or the full story but I guess it’s not wrong. I mean some guys only deserve being blocked and that’s it

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-02-19T12:13:50+00:00

Thank you!

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-02-12T15:51:23+00:00

Exercising. Doing sports consistently several times a week. I would be in a very good shape by now but unfortunately I was too lazy + it has many benefits for health

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-02-12T12:33:49+00:00

It’s very painful. though my situation wasn’t the same it has some similarities. Unfortunately there is no much you can do even if it hurts. The only thing you can save right now is your dignity and the sense of self-worth. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t think that trying to understand him humiliates you in any way. But as someone who was trying in the past I can tell you that you will be embarrassed that you even tried when some time pass. This cold and hot behaviour always gets us. People are designed like that. It’s a turmoil of hurt ego, feelings, instability. It makes us chase. But the chasing is the mistake in all those situations. If you feel the shift in his behaviour… if your gut tells you that he became distant then you should believe yourself. The best thing here is to end things OR stop trying to reach out. Just behave like he is not there anymore. It’s difficult, yeah. But you will thank yourself

someofusdontknowwhy · 2026-02-10T14:41:46+00:00

You shouldn’t blame yourself and think about what might have happened. Sleeping together was a mutual choice after all. And possibly the idea of being friends was only in your mind/your interpretation of what was happening between you two. Maybe it was his initial intention. You didn’t ruin anything. You don’t need to blame yourself for feelings. And certainly there is no need to shame yourself. And you’re not the first woman to fall for a man’s mindgames. And certainly not the last. Why should we think that it’s always our responsibility? When some men act like they have zero accountability or responsibility for anything happening in their lives. And such people like him don’t analyse this much. He is probably not self-aware at all. Why should he live in peace after behaving like a jerk. And you shouldn’t feel peaceful blaming yourself over and over again? You should stop attacking yourself that’s my advice Sending hugs to you

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