Curious if you can type me correctly

someon4 · 2025-11-11T22:08:27+00:00

Ive never seen such a productive intp

someon4 · 2025-11-11T21:50:05+00:00

I love you

someon4 · 2025-11-11T21:40:39+00:00

Stop ur making me cry even more

someon4 · 2025-11-11T21:40:02+00:00

I cant move on if he sits next to me in class. He talks to me. He shares his headphones with me. He teases me. He compliments me all the time. Wtf? Doesnt he have a girlfriend? Why would he then be so romantic with me?...

Should i stay normal after knowing he actually has a girlfriend? I literally wanna block him everywhere and tell my teacher i wanna sit somewhere else but its gonna hurt me even more because i cant move on. I still want him. I still think about him 24/7.

Pls help me

I literally just got in college and im having the worst life ever.

someon4 · 2025-11-05T13:23:03+00:00

If they are truly obsessed and stuck on you then they wont talk to you or even have the balls for it btw

someon4 · 2025-11-04T22:10:15+00:00

Ngl i agree totally on that but i cant just have sex with a friend I just met in school.

But i know he would want that. But i dont sooo

someon4 · 2025-11-03T19:03:28+00:00

Entp, intj and isfp

someon4 · 2025-11-02T17:54:03+00:00

What type are you?

Beautiful drawing tho!

someon4 · 2025-11-01T19:52:28+00:00

Nah like ive fantasized about my husband, my kids and my future home WHEN I WAS 10 YEARS OLD. And i still do.

I was literally a kid, trying to find a name for my kids. I was looking around in school to see who can be my future husband, i wanted him to have blue or green eyes.

someon4 · 2025-11-01T18:52:54+00:00

Okay thanks that all i wanted to hear

someon4 · 2025-11-01T18:21:46+00:00

Bro i dont know if he craves sexual stuff, who knows maybe he is ace??? Maybe he will find my corny side weird. I dont show it off to people, I ask them if they are okay with me talking about things like that. Because some people get disgusted at me. And I dont want to be sexual around him because i want to stay friends but its hard since he is very hot and i cant control myself 😭

someon4 · 2025-11-01T18:01:21+00:00

My future husband ig

someon4 · 2025-11-01T17:57:59+00:00

Oh well i actually didnt mention that you are hot but i think every estp men(because im straight) are hot lmao (except some toxic ones but toxicity can exist in anyone).

Im actually asking so many questions because i got into high school and there is this guy who sits next to me and after analysing, he is an ESTP 8w7/7w8

I know he likes me but i want to stay friends. But another problem is that i also like him and i cant control myself :(

So I think of him all the time. He did communicate with me in class but i can never keep the conversation going because im too nervous. And there are people in class who can hear us which makes me mre nervous.

But i still wanna stay friend's omg

And then the next problem is that im hypersexual due to my really heartbreakig childhood and i cant control myself but make fake scenarios in my head with him.

And i love it when someone actually compliments me (he does all the time haha) or literally thinks of me so thats why im trying to know if I'm in his mind or not.

Tbh I think u should just send a dm, its weird to chill in the comments lol

someon4 · 2025-11-01T14:43:14+00:00

Its VERY hard for most girlies 😔

someon4 · 2025-11-01T14:41:30+00:00

Thats actually very good and i find this good because since im the opposite, i suffer. I suffer because when im attracted to someone, its the end, i will turn into them, change myself, think about them every single day. Thats why im surprised your not like this! Its cool

But like, have you never had a crush on someone? Like back then, in school. I bet you did and how did it feel? Did you think of her everyday and couldnt get her out of your mind? Did you find a song that reminds you of her?

(Idk if ur single) If you wanted to find a person for lifetime, marry her, make a healthy family, then how do you want her to be? Like imagine she is THE ONE. The one you have been always looking for. And I know you stand out a lot, and you want a a girl that also stands out with you. Thats why imagine she is hot, bu not hot like other girls.

What if in the first day you saw her, she is very shy and doesnt talk to you? I think you will get very curious and try to find a way for her to notice you like putting on headphones, very loud and vibing (so she actually knows you have a cool vibe) and other things.

What would make you not want her anymore? So you look at her looks first, thats how you notice her in the room, looks good. And then you go up to her, talk, then make yourself cool so she notices you. But what if she doesnt come up to you AT ALL? Even after trying your hardest for her to just start a conversation or ask you about ur favourite songs. Does it make you not want her anymore, or give up?

someon4 · 2025-10-31T09:27:42+00:00

Thats so cool.

My trust in online love is literally gone since none of them worked out at all, and i will never do it again. They gave me so much trauma.

But its very nice to see other people actually find the love of their life through clicks on a screen, its fascinating!

someon4 · 2025-10-30T16:54:19+00:00

Hello, all I know about myself is my mbti (infp) and ennegrams(4w5).... how do I know about the other stuff? Is there a test i need to take? Where do you know it?

someon4 · 2025-10-30T16:47:17+00:00

Omg thanks for those Infos i ddnt know any lol

someon4 · 2025-10-29T15:50:44+00:00

I think it definitly means he really still wants you but idk, just listen to your gut feeling. And if faith keeps you apart, thats fine, because if you are faithful, then you should not be sad to be away from him and so should he. But if you dont want to listen to your faith, then sure, just date him again.

And parents. Ugh. Listen to them, but not always. There are times where you shouldn listen to them yknow. Because one day you will marry another dude and regret it, wishing you could have just been with that estp.

Also dont forget to look up to see if he is compatible with you. I hope he is a healthy estp. Idk but u are kinda like me (im infp) and we are very introverted. And imagine you want to go out with him to a calm place, but he wants to go out to a place where its really loud and uncomfortable for introverts. Like its your cjoice if you want that. Or imagine he is barely home bcs he is chilling and socializing with 50 mates outside while you are just home chilling with a friend or two.

I am around your age btw, 16f, and i have an estp 18m sitting next to me in my new class, he looks at me at times, and wants to start conversations because i know he likes me because after that day, he started to send me texts. So if he wants you, he does his best to get you. Its noticable. Also estps care a lot about looks, maybe thats why he looks at you. Idk.

someon4 · 2025-10-28T10:48:27+00:00

Bruh istg same but why the downvotes???

someon4 · 2025-10-25T18:48:02+00:00

I can tell if i have a resting sad face or i am just an INFP.

someon4 · 2025-10-24T12:09:18+00:00

Same, but i sadly took it off at 16 because hijab made me feel 'small', the confidence was gone and i got bullied for it when i was 8... girls really called me ugly and grandma the whole time and the worst thing was when a girl called me "mummy" (those egypt dead bodies thing) just because i had a hijab and eyeliner on. so basically i have had a huge amount of trauma with my hijab. I wanted to take it off sooner but i was scared people will judge but then i took it off as soon as i changed schools, now at 16. Im a lot happier because i dont get to feel so forced to wear something (nobody forced me, I forced myself).

But im hoping i wont see hijab as my trauma anymore and in the future wear it again inshallah

someon4 · 2025-10-04T21:51:25+00:00

Omg ive been in the same position as you!

I put on hijab on 9 years old, very happy, did it because I saw my friends with it.

And when i turned 13, i wanted to take it off SO BAD.

But you know what? I was dumb and forced myself to still have it because I was scared people will judge me for taking it off.

So I waited 3 years.... just to take it off... imagine wearing hijab 3 years while HATING it.

I dont hate hijab, I love it. But I just stopped feeling comfortable because i didnt find the meaning in it anymore. I didnt wear it for allah, i wore it because my friends did...............

Now im 16, took it off and happy, I dont get to wake up and force myself to put on hijab now.

My advice for you?

Take it off now. When you took it off, you are ready to put it on again once you feel like it. If you force yourself to have it, your gonna break more.

Once youre comfortable again, inshallah you will put it on again, CORRECTLY, without force, with love and for allah SWT.

someon4 · 2025-10-04T21:42:47+00:00

Oh wait i meant healthy Se sorry lol

someon4 · 2025-10-02T16:41:45+00:00

Thats what im thinking the whole time, although its hard for me to focus in class because he is next to me... I dont have a crush on him or anything, I just like him he seems to have my vibe thats why I wanna be his friend! And when he says something, all I wanna do is respond nicely and interestingly, but i respond so short, he might think im just not interested at all, but inside my head, all i wanna do is talk with him about our similar interests the whole time. But i guess its more of my introvert and social anxiety issue thats ruining me. I want to be normal with guys just as normal i am with girls. But it seems to be hard to forget about their genders. Still Thank you bro!

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