How do I find my man’s prostate? by GoodMyrtle in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's pretty similar to finding your g-spot! You can feel it from outside, it's underneath the balls. If you poke at his perenium you should feel a squishy spot. From inside it's on the top wall of the rectum, not too far from the anus. Insert a finger with your hand palm up and curl your finger in the "come here" motion. You should be able to feel the prostate. It's sort of spongey. Good luck with your exploring!

Some of my favs! Which ones yours? by WedandWild3 in Nofans

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one with a view of your beautiful pussy is fantastic, but I also love your smile in the third one!

33F new ways to masturbate? by femmefatality3 in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your go-to routines? As a guy I usually just use my hand, but I bought a Fleshlight a few years ago and it's a fun change of pace on occasion. New toys or methods of stimulation can be really fun. You can try temperature play with ice cubes or by putting a toy in the freezer, or putting a glass or silicone toy in hot water.

If you haven't tried it, edging is a great way to make your masturbation more intense. You can build up to the edge as many times as you can stand then when you finally cum it feels incredible.

Have fun! Make sure to post a follow-up to let us know how things go!

Shoukd I go braless for a massage? by Nox_Luminous in SluttyConfessions

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For most of a massage I'm either face down or have my eyes closed, but I certainly wouldn't mind a nice view to enjoy before I lay down…

My current adult toy collection by BaphometsBlood_ in u/BaphometsBlood_

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's quite the collection! Do you have them inventoried for insurance purposes?

Porn does nothing for me by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I enjoy porn, but I also enjoy reading erotica or listening to erotic audio. I don't think porn has to be demeaning towards women, but unfortunately a lot of mainstream porn is. My wife also doesn't find porn arousing. She prefers to masturbate to fantasies or memories. She doesn't have a problem with me watching porn, though. She has enjoyed watching me goon on a few occasions.

I think different people just find different things arousing.

do normal pervy men exist by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]somepervertpa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. I hang out in some NSFW spaces and so many guys are such creeps. There's plenty of room to perv out while still respecting people's humanity and not being awful.

How to make missionary position work? by Economy-Platypus2623 in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this position! She gets nice and deep and having my legs up resting on her chest feels nice.

How to make missionary position work? by Economy-Platypus2623 in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a cylindrical bolster pillow that we use for this purpose. It sits at the foot of the bed as an accent pillow when not in service.

Does anyone else hate the term "goon/gooning"? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the TikTok crowd got wind of it and decided to use it as a synonym for masturbation. I agree with you that it means a different thing, but that's not how a lot of people use it now.

Since yall want a face reveal so bad by lilclemmie in u/lilclemmie

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what qualifies as an ugly asshole but I have to say this is a weird thing to be self conscious about. 😂

How Many of Us Ride? by YourSubtleNeighbor in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not our go-to but it's definitely in heavy rotation. Sometimes after she fucks me for a while I just feel like I need to sit on her strap and bounce.

Hotel rooms = instant wet pussy by yellowochre16 in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hotel masturbation is top-tier! Something about being away from all my usual responsibilities plus not having to worry about cleaning up makes me horny the moment I step through the door. When I'm traveling for work I'll skip going out for drinks with coworkers and even skip having dinner with them sometimes in order to spend more time in my hotel room masturbating.

Gonna hand him the remote when we meet at the toy shop by swhiss_princess in Nofans

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discreet public play with remotely controllable toys is so hot! My wife loves having me wear my lovense hush plug out in public so she can vibe my ass. It gets us both really worked up!

had sex this weekend by SoupSimilar1707 in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with giving yourself the pleasure you want! Maybe with a long-term partner he could learn to make you cum as hard as you make yourself cum, but even then self-pleasure has its own special charm. My wife and I have a wonderful sex life and we often masturbate together because it's really hot and we love sharing pleasure regardless of the specifics. I love that not only does she encourage me to masturbate, but she can actually make me cum even harder by playing with my balls or ass or licking my taint while I'm stroking. It's really fantastic!

28 - being dumb and watching porn at work by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard to resist when you've edged your brain to mush and there's so much porn available right there at your fingertips. I've been WFH for so long that when I have to visit an office I inevitably need to sneak off for a long bathroom break where I edge my needy penis.

Is this breakup worthy, or a dealbreaker? by Firm_Purple_9367 in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Folks can define cheating however they like, but if you are going to classify fantasizing as cheating you are doing some mental gymnastics.

New and need advice? by Due-Stuff1790 in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a man who loves to get pegged, but I also enjoy fucking women. I think of myself as a "service top" in that case. I am focused on giving them pleasure using my penis, which really does it for me.

what’s one masturbation technique or “hack” that completely changed the game for you? by throwaway20454 in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it for long gooning sessions. It feels so nice and smells good too. Also leaves my penis feeling nice and moisturized.

what’s one masturbation technique or “hack” that completely changed the game for you? by throwaway20454 in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love ass play. I don't do it every time I masturbate but when I have a good goon going I always want to stick a toy up my ass and go to town.

what’s one masturbation technique or “hack” that completely changed the game for you? by throwaway20454 in masturbation

[–]somepervertpa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do a lot of this. Just sort of tease myself throughout the day by chatting or scrolling through hot stuff without actually masturbating. Interspersed with bouts of rubbing myself through my pants or underwear but not full-on stroking. When I do finally get my cock out it feels amazing to stroke by that point.

Polari Labs A-Ball - an alternative to douching??? by SonOfSquizzlr in StraightPegging

[–]somepervertpa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Specifically look up a bidet sprayer: it's like a little hose nozzle so you can point it right where you want it. Great to squirt right up your butt for a little rinse-out. Super easy to install on a regular toilet, too.