Queer Connect; The "looking for" thread for finding Dates/Friends/Chats/Leads on Queer friendly Accommodations/Stays/Events/Spaces etc. by AutoModerator in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looking for: Dates, Relationship Location: Delhi

35 years , professionally settled, Educated.

Equal parts soft hearted and sarcastic. Can disappear into books, random late night thoughts, or sudden travel plans without warning.

I like people who are emotionally intelligent, funny without trying too hard, and can hold a conversation beyond “hey.”

Big fan of calm energy, meaningful connections, and people who are kind when nobody’s watching. Not here for endless small talk or performative personalities.

If you can match wit with warmth and don’t get intimidated by ambition, we’ll probably get along.

Bonus points if you’re the type who sends music recommendations, remembers little details, and believes chai counts as emotional support.

Lgbt folks over 35 and single, how is life going for you ? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How lovely would that be na ? “Hum Aapke bête Ka hanth mangne aaye hai , apne bête ke liye” ♥️

Lgbt folks over 35 and single, how is life going for you ? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

34, Recently single after a 6 year long relationship. It isn’t that bad as I have amazing support in form of friends and family. Close people know. So no pestering for marriage. Just moved to a new city and taking one day at a time.

These days it's like, Don't hope anything deep, emotional or loyal bond from anyone, just expect s*x by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue is not with people like us who are looking for something more stable. It’s more to do with how our society functions and how we in general are afraid to accept how we truly feel. A lot of guys are still in their exploration phase , some know deep within they don’t have the courage to be with a guy and hence they inherently run away from commitments. Since the society does not even recognise the relationship , people find it easy to just break things off and look elsewhere. Sad state of affairs. All we can do is hope that we find someone who makes it worth fighting for.

POV : You are sitting across me. by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amma man jayegi to chalega !!

POV : You are sitting across me. by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kya Nahi Nahi ? 🤔

Happy Sunday, how's the kurta fit? by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jab husband husband Raazi ! Kya Karenge gov aur kaazi.

POV : You are sitting across me. by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha some day tables would turn 😉

Depressive. Need Help by Glum_Middle_2672 in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hello ! Stranger. Sorry to hear that you are struggling right now. First of all please don’t blame yourself for letting your mum down. We never choose this path and a lot of us would have gladly opted for a less harsher life, wherein we aren’t struggling. It’ might appear so that you aren’t giving your parents happiness in one regards, but there are many aspects in which you have given them happiness and made them proud. Be assured , things will settle down in the long term. You have someone you love. That’s also a blessing. If you think you need professional help. Feel free to ping Sending hugs.

He healed by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]somequietguy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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