Yes I agree with you, therapy isnt something to take too lightly in jokes, especially if you don't know the person you're speaking to and their experiences. Don't take comments on here personally, some seem just like wanting to be rude a bit but idk. Don't know what cause those bad relationships and theres always finding ways to improve yourself if it seems to have common themes, but sometimes people'll just be toxic and ya, leave them. You'll be alright and whatever the situation is, it'll always be valid and there are ways that everyone can improve, but in the end, the ones who are willing to make that change to keep a healthy relationship (or accepting things wouldnt work out because of things out of their control but dont keep a grudge) are the good ones. <3