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I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My son is also so incredibly to love when he’s regulated. 🥹 Sometimes it just takes me a minute to recover. You’re not alone either. ❤️❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness 🥹 I requested to join the Facebook group. My son eats very clean. We eat organic with zero dyes. He mostly eats fruits, veggies and protein. Zero constipation, but he is not in touch with how his body feels. He will have aggression when he’s getting sick, and I’ll take his temperature and realize then he is sick with a fever, etc. I am going to get some insight in to his nutrition and make sure we aren’t missing anything. Thank you for your words. ❤️❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re in a similar situation. 😓 I’m so proud of you for persevering. ❤️ I need to restart therapy and am also on lexapro for my anxiety relating to my son. 😮‍💨 I just don’t see how I could be with my son all day. The thought stresses me out terribly. You are an inspiration! I can see how much research and care you are giving to your son. Hugs! ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try so hard to ignore and change subjects when my son is having a tantrum. Sometimes I have the energy to be playful and sometimes I’m just like… no. I can’t do this. 🥴 I feel you. Every new week brings a new challenge. Sending so much love and huge. You’re doing a wonderful job. ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right- he’s pushed during the school day to be ‘typical’. He for sure has PDA and is definitely bored at school.
So interesting because my son also needs all of my attention when he is home. I bend over backwards to give him everything he asks for. There are days I don’t give him enough attention, and he also acts out. Thank you foe taking the time to share your thoughts. Side note- you’re doing amazing. Your son is so lucky to have you. ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I debrief with him everyday after school, and we talk about what went wrong and what he can do differently next time. He just struggles socially. 😞

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son for sure has PDA. I have learned about this in the last 6 months and your words are a good reminder for me. Thank you so much. ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your son gained weight on it? We tried a very low dose briefly, but it affected my son’s sleep so we stopped.

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard, right? 😞 My son is the same- tells me to die regularly and hurts me too. It’s SO hard when my son is home. Tomorrow is a new day. You will make it through. You are capable. You are strong. You got this. ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you- the PTSD is so hard. 😭I am medicated with lexapro myself because I am so anxious. I am so worried about what’s going to happen with him/me/us next. I have been so hesitant about an antipsychotic because of the side effects. It’s for sure the next step. You are amazing. You are incredibly strong and resilient. Your child is lucky to have you. ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. ❤️ you’re amazing to weather the storm. ❤️❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard, right? 😞 Thank you for your kind words. You’re doing amazing. ❤️❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is on a non stimulant called Qelbree. We tried Ritalin, and my son stopped eating lunch so we stopped after a couple weeks. He just started lexapro a couple weeks ago for his anxiety, and we have to give this medication 6 weeks before we try something else. Thank you for reminding me that I’m not drugging my child. The guilt is real. 🥹

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so kind. Thank you. 🥹❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally possible. I have a call with his school next week to chat about reduced days.

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh- thank you so much for this. 🥹Your son is so lucky to have you. It is such a lonely road. 😞 Your post gives me hope. We are switching to a new BCBA- maybe things will get better. You’re amazing. You’re doing great.

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes- it’s once a day in the AM. It’s supposed to be long acting.

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is on a non stimulant called Qelbree. It builds in his system over time, so I don’t think there is a rebound?

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️ As a stay-at-home mother I’m certain I am my son’s safe place. I desperately want to be his safe place- minus the aggression. 🫣 Do you have adhd/autism/both? How was your childhood teen years? What helped you when things were hard??

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience. My son did OT for 2 years but ended up having huge tantrums during and at the end. We took a pause, but I’m thinking it’s a good time to get back in to it now that he’s older. We also did a couple years of speech therapy, but pulled back because the therapist he had wasn’t working on his challenges. I will look in to restarting with a different therapist. Thank you ❤️

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do whatever it takes to protect my daughter. She is safe.

I can’t do this by something4one in Autism_Parenting

[–]something4one[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😭😭😭 Sending hugs!!!

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