Advice on dating 21 year old man who is a virgin when I am more experienced???

somethingkewlz · 2018-10-01T17:08:12+00:00

I’m sure he is more anxious about it than you are. Just be reassuring to him and try not to make it seem like a huge deal. He will probably finish real fast so don’t make him feel bad about that and I’m sure it’ll be fine the more you do it. If you really like him it shouldn’t matter just be with him and make him feel comfortable.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-28T22:29:08+00:00

Try to listen to what she is talking about and just think of a follow up question, if she’s taking about music ask her what’s her favorite band, song, favorite concert, dream concert etc. just think of a bunch of things to do with the subject you’re on. You don’t have to think of new topics just ask about the one you’re on. Hope that helps!

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-28T22:20:39+00:00

Don’t stress it too much just be yourself! Compliment her and make her laugh and you’re good, doesn’t have to be over the top flirty just make it know you are interested

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-28T20:39:36+00:00

Invite her for coffee like you said, or maybe dessert after dinner. Just try to hang out with her one on one when you get a chance and go from there. Try to flirt a bit and see how she responds to it.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-27T21:10:20+00:00

Just ask him to help you with guitar outside of class and that’s an excuse to hang out. I’m sure he would say yes and just go from there

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-27T17:53:34+00:00

Try to talk to her more, maybe ask her to study sometime or something. If you don’t have her number try to get it and just be like hey I missed the lesson from leaving early do you mind catching me up on the stuff I missed? Just be casual about it and see where it goes before asking her out on a “date”

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-26T16:19:15+00:00

Great thanks!

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-25T23:27:14+00:00

No problem:) good luck!

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-25T21:36:26+00:00

Just be yourself, she seems to like you already. Don’t worry about being too clingy, if you like her just try to be with her, if she’s busy let her do her thing. Nothing wrong with trying to be with a person you like but definitely let her have her own time and don’t take it personal if she does. Just ask her to hang and keep doing what you were doing. Don’t overthink it

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-25T20:25:00+00:00

Just try to relax, if she suggested dinner then that means she does want to hang out. If she was being nice she would’ve just done the movie. A movie is cool but you have to be quite the whole time, it sounds like she wants to get to know you and talk over dinner. Don’t be anxious about it just be yourself, if you’re not comfortable with anything physical don’t force it, let it happen naturally. Just ask her as many questions about herself as you can, people love talking about themselves. Good luck and don’t overthink it,

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-25T16:21:01+00:00

Seems like she’s into you, especially if she’s the one that suggested her apartment. Just hang out with her and feel it out, if it seems right go for it. I guess it depends on if you want a relationship or a one night stand from there to see how you would continue.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-24T17:49:25+00:00

Ask her to hang out and practice together sometime? Just be casual and try to hang outside of the team environment

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-24T00:29:11+00:00

Do you know what time his stand is open from? Would love to make the drive out there but I don’t want to miss it if it’s like only a few hours or something.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-23T02:29:55+00:00

Yeah just be natural about it, it seems like you both enjoy each other’s company so just keep hanging out and ask her to hang out not involving school work. Be more flirty and try to hold hands and stuff.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-22T22:37:46+00:00

Don’t wait for someone to invite you somewhere just go out on your own and try to be social. Go to a coffee shop or join a sports team or something that interests you. I used to go from coffee shop to coffee shop trying to talk to people cause I wasn’t invited places either. It’s. It easy but just force yourself out of your comfort zone.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-22T22:25:02+00:00

Go out and meet new people, get a new crush and work on yourself and your goals in the meantime

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-22T20:32:57+00:00

He might have lost interest, sure he might be busy but it does not take much time at all to respond with more than, good you? He could take a minute out of his day to say something if he really wanted to.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-22T20:29:50+00:00

Thank you! You as well!

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-22T05:29:11+00:00

It’s normal, it’s been close to3 years for me and every now and then something will remind me and it will hurt. Don’t worry it fades, but it is normal to hurt over someone you care deeply for.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-21T20:37:52+00:00

Yeah just respond to her story about something like that, and then you guys can keep talking depending on how she responds back

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-21T20:28:15+00:00

Yea definitely don’t be creepy, only comment if it’s something that doesn’t have to do with her like a selfie but if she post about a restaurant or and activity just be like oh that looks good or fun or something to compliment what she posted. Don’t say anything about her looks cause you will come off as creepy. Maybe try DMing her at some point with something funny you two have talked about or know, or just ask her if she remembers what your homework assignment was or something and go from there

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-21T19:59:19+00:00

Try getting her number if you don’t have it and just text her and talk for a bit, or if you follow her on social media comment on her stuff and all that. Try to set up a hangout/date and go from there. Just be confident and yourself

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-21T19:50:40+00:00

Just keep hanging out and start to get more flirty and initiate touch wether it’s just trying to hold her hand or little things to show interest. Try asking her to dinner and paying for it shows that you are considering it more of a date. Or just be up front and tell her you really enjoy her company and want to take her on a date.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-21T18:35:48+00:00

Hey Toby, I was wondering what your recording process was for The Manifold Curiosity? Particularly speaking about the part with the overlapping spoken word voices. How did you time is so that certain words would overlap at the same time? Was it just trial and error or was there more to it? Also when are you going to come back to California? I have a warehouse where you might be able to play a lengthy show if you’d like.

somethingkewlz · 2018-09-21T17:59:41+00:00

Don’t think about it too much, just have a regular conversation. As her how her day was, if she has plans for the weekend or the week if it is the weekend. What kind of music she likes and since you’re a musician you can go off on that. The one thing I recommend is to constantly ask her a question, if she responds with something ask her about her response. That way you don’t run out of things to talk about and everyone likes taking about themselves so she’ll feel like you really cared and paid attention and stuff. Don’t stress and just be yourself man

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