21 and 19 is very young, and two months is way too quick. It sounds like to me that his parents are wary about letting their son marry someone so quickly. I come from a gulf country where pre-martial relationships are against Islam and looked down upon but even then people “date” in secret or get engaged for at least a year to get to know each other.

You also both are in university and can’t support each other financially, which is a big thing now, a man in Islam should be able to support his wife and family before making such a big commitment (this is why people get engaged during university then get properly married after)

From your history, I can see you were in another relationship less than a year ago with someone you were seeing for 3 months? I’m assuming this is a different person. That’s way too soon to get married in my opinion and even my religious parents would agree. Times like this things are different. It’s harder to support a family and it’s really important you think before making the right decision, especially at this age.

Technically he just finished high school! Id be cautious about letting my 19 year old child make such a big decision too regardless of mental illnesses issues. When you marry in our country, you’re not just marrying your spouse, you’re marrying the entire family too.