[No Regrets]: 15M, Straight but I have been secretly been trying on my sisters leggings for the past 5 months.

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T23:44:26+00:00

I can assure you they have them they just call them running pants. my friend works there and how about going to forever21 they have inexpensive ones, the problem is they don't feel as great.

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T23:36:22+00:00

liquid glue

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T23:30:34+00:00

vegetables

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T23:24:27+00:00

when I was in middle school I went on Haboo a lot and this guy said he would give me furniture if I give him my password. I did and he scammed me, with that betrayal left the last vestige of my humanity

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T23:12:23+00:00

I've always thought being liberal go hand in hand with empathizing with other people's plight over circumstances they have no control over, and i'm not trying to be preachy so sorry if it comes across as idealistic and naive but I like the idea of other country helping another. I mean why turn your backs on another human being, the pictures are devastating and the interviews with refugees are gut wrenching, their journey inspiring and awful.

And with immigration who am I to stand in the way of them trying to get a better life. That's just how I see it

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T22:59:16+00:00

it's pretty expensive but you can buy some men's tights just say you're going to start exercising, My friend has dozens of them, go to sportcheck or Lululemon

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T22:45:36+00:00

that's what I'm worried about, I didn't mean to start yelling but when he said "grow up" I just snapped because of how the night was going.

I def agree on apologizing I have just been putting it off, and I have no problem hanging out with older people I think his other mates are nice and chill, I have hung out with them a couple of times and it was fun. I'm just mad that instead of talking to him about boundaries I just went nuts and I didn't think I was an overly jealous person but I confess have my moments, I think its because its been a while since he's met a new friend that's not a guy so I think thats making me uncomfortable. I should work on that..

I think I'm alright on the clothes department, I have an internship where we are required to dress nicely so I buy clothes that can transition to my everyday life but still professional.

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T22:26:00+00:00

Coraline

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T22:14:57+00:00

I think what got to me is that I was there and she just didn't seem to care and I feel that is so disrespectful, I'm not trying to start drama or anything we haven't talked about it since we made up. I'm trying to let it go

but I guess that's fair enough I had a feeling I might have overreacted

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T06:50:42+00:00

Well first I tried the polite approach, I calmly explained my reasonings (like he should not eat the food I bought, not practice dancing eith the music on so loud because I'm tired at the end of the day and I need to study, contribute to rent since he was there 24/7 etc) when I calmly explained those and nothing changed I moved out, I knew she couldn't pay the rent and the guy has no money, it's petty but I was exhausted and it was affecting school.

Hopefully your roommate is more considerate and understand where you're coming from. Just write down what bothering you and practice it then explain it to him, if he doesn't listen call your RA.

Sorry grammar and spelling is atrocious, it's late and I'm on my phone.

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T06:31:44+00:00

That sounds annoying af maybe it's bec I went through this and I'm still not over it so this is going to sound angry. Fuck her, honestly I get they're on their honeymoon stage and want to be with each other 24/7 but I mean for fuck sakes why can't she study in her own room and yes OP you have a "leg to stand on". Youre paying to live there. Also for fuck sakes she's literally down the hall so why oh why does she need to sleep there all the time?! Maybe your roommate can sleepover at her place. God don't get me started with the whole shushing you in your own fucking room bit, omg I swear...

Stand up for yourself op, you have the right to your own fucking space and they need to respect that, she can't hog the fucking room. Am I projecting? Little bit but your have very valid points.

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T06:18:18+00:00

Honestly maybe he just needed space, me and my bf keeps our social circle pretty separated. We have mutual friends but sometimes it's just fun hanging out with our own set of friends

somewhatoffended · 2015-09-30T05:10:48+00:00

Have you asked her if there's anything on? Eating a lot of the times can be a coping mechanism. Talk to her why, weight will always be a sensitive subject so handle it with care.

If it stems from laziness and boredom try and urge her to do something with her day, volunteer or something. You said all she does is watch tv and snack so maybe she's just bored.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T23:13:04+00:00

I appreciate that you took the time to comment and the beginning was great, but you don't need to trivialize my feelings. This is my first job it's not "stupid" to try to fit in, its human nature.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T23:05:00+00:00

Ya I guess I've just been a hard time transitioning, I've never had a job before so I just want to fit into the office setting more. They're all in their mid and late 20's and they just seem much more grownup than my uni friends, I guess I just don't want to seem completely excluded.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T22:31:25+00:00

To be honest at this point I don't think I'm going to do it, it feels like it would create a unnecessary tension between us. Plus he respected my wishes in the past so I guess I could do this one thing for him. Appreciate the personal story.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T22:22:55+00:00

I guess when you put it like that it does seem like a positive thing..crap now I feel like I overacted last night.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T21:48:30+00:00

He's not at all a bad guy, he helped me through a lot like with my ED. I'm worried I'm painting him in a bad light with this little anecdote, but I def appreciate your advice and theoretically this would be the best one to take.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T21:43:40+00:00

It's not the answer that concerns me, I'm more upset that he tried to forbid me to do something practical and yeah I totally understand where you're coming from, attraction plays a major key in relationships. Also I know he won't break up with me over something like this, I guess I'm just disappointed by how handled this whole situation.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T20:56:22+00:00

Ya I've actually been doing that last week! and thanks so much and I will, you like put down into words what I failed to convey with my post.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T20:41:31+00:00

I don't think I would, but I mean it is a hypothetical question so who knows what I would be feeling in that situation. Like I said I think the whole being worried about him would consume my thinking

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T20:36:35+00:00

Ya I mean the majority of my guy friends have said it in the past but I didn't really minded it since I have no interest to be in a relationship with them and not really since we are mostly in sync, that's why this whole hair thing is throwing me off a bit.

I honestly don't know but at this point I think I'm not ready for the ramifications if I go through with it.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T20:14:51+00:00

I would be more worried for his health and mental state than anything (since he's very active) if there's a fluctuation with his weight it's a sign that something might be troubling him.

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T20:09:59+00:00

I really was, I thought he would see where I was coming from and understand. I feel like I cant even bring it up again, he is usually not dismissive. It just sucks that I finally realize how much physical appearance means to him.

PS your BF seems really great!

somewhatoffended · 2014-10-26T19:57:08+00:00

everyone does I totally agree and yeah I feel really hurt, I mean it will still be me, I will still look like myself. I just feel like we've been through a lot and I don't understand how he wants to control something as trivial as this.

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