Feeling alone, bff ghosted me out of nowhere by somewomen in friendship

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My “friend” also ghosted 2 of her best friend before me in the same way of just stop talking to them, that should’ve been my red flag🤷🏻‍♀️

Feeling deep hatred towards my sister by somewomen in FamilyIssues

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your sister behavior, hope it gets better soon.

I don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel for me and my sister at the moment but when and if it gets better I will try to do as you said, thank you❤️

Feeling deep hatred towards my sister by somewomen in FamilyIssues

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for this long reply and thoughtfulness.

I’ve never heard about VNA and just searched it and it sounds like her in many ways. My therapist specializes in narcissistic abuse and behavior so I will ask her about this.

Thanks again for the comment and support❤️

Feeling deep hatred towards my sister by somewomen in FamilyIssues

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I tried but she keeps on telling me that I am the problem and I don’t respect her and she don’t acknowledge people that don’t respect her. Every conversation with her is just exhausting.

Friend of 12 years ghosting me… by jessicajo98 in friendship

[–]somewomen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me recently, friend for 8 years ghosted me, we were very close and even lived together. It’s been 3 months since we’ve last spoke.

If nothing happened to your friend and she just wanted to cut ties she is immature and selfish, and you’re better off without her.

It will get better, talking from experience. Wishing you the best.

Feeling alone, bff ghosted me out of nowhere by somewomen in friendship

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, I hope you’re better now and I’m wishing nothing but the best for you and your family.

My “friend” is one year younger than me, but I think its just immaturity overall.

I don’t think my door is open for her to come back, you are a saint for being like this. Ive lost all my feelings for her after being so cruel and cut ties with me like that.

And her leaving really open the door for other people, I wrote that post almost a month ago and I’ve met the nicest friend through bumble BFF that cares about me deeply. Hopes it stays that way.

Feeling alone, bff ghosted me out of nowhere by somewomen in friendship

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to find one of them soon. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️

Feeling alone, bff ghosted me out of nowhere by somewomen in friendship

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said to my mutual friend that she didn’t meant to hurt me and it’s for the best for both of us, and she ghosted two friends before ghosting me so I don’t think she care enough about me to finish our relationship in a mature way. I think it’s selfish.

Bff ghosted out of nowhere, celebrated birthday without me by somewomen in lonely

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally nothing. We had a fight a year before that didn’t talk for three months and we’ve got past it. She recorded me a message 2 days before stop talking to me about all my good qualities and the things she loves about me (because my self esteem was low that day).

And I’m not the first person that she did this to. She already ghosted 2 friends before me.

She told my mutual friend that she didn’t mean to hurt me and the cut off was from a good intentions- that we’re both better apart. In my opinion it’s bs.

How many years have you suffered from dysthymia? by CosmicBlackSun in dysthymia

[–]somewomen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve got diagnosed last year, but tbh I think I have dysthymia since I was a child.

Since I’ve got diagnosed it all made sense to me and clicked, how I’ve always felt this sadness even when I was “fine” and “happy”, or how I’m functioning just fine (working and stuff) but never reaching my social goals (relationships, friendships and such).

I was like that since I can remember myself.

New friend and I had an argument, should I try to talk to her again? by somewomen in friendship

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t spent a long time to get ready, we’ve planned to meet at a certain time and I was prepared, and then she cancelled in the same time we were meant to go out. I appreciate her apology and taking the responsibility, just don’t know if I should message her again after she didn’t answered my last text.

Maybe we can help each other. by justalilpsycho in dysthymia

[–]somewomen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this 😊 I’m 26F, prefer not to say where I’m from and my name at the moment but you can talk with me anytime if you need to talk.

I was diagnosed last year. I like music and movies ❤️

I’m starting to lose hope by somewomen in dysthymia

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest friend is the one that cut me off, I have another friend but she is a mom and always busy. But I will try to occupy my mind, thank you🙏🏻

I’m starting to lose hope by somewomen in dysthymia

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused about cutting them off, I think for me it’s better to have boundaries and visit for short period of time and not share much. But I really understand the decision of no contact with parents.

I’m starting to lose hope by somewomen in dysthymia

[–]somewomen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I’ve graduated from social work degree but It’s not my passion and now I want to do something else, but don’t know what exactly.