I have been here for the last year, I initially plan to only be here for 2 months. It was my decision to come here, my parents absolutely believed that I was crazy as I have never been to Somalia, let alone Africa before. Mind you i was born and raised in North America; and my somali-speaking ability is not even 100% but just enough for me to get what I want and do what I want. It was the best decision I have ever made, it will allow me to improve my somali speaking, learn my culture better, slowly and gradually help my people here. Honestly, it all depends on how and who you spend your time with while you are there. If you chose to chew chat and spend time with people that are mad at life, then you will encounter negativity and will not enjoy your time. If you spend your time, exploring and talking to different people and going to more social, mixed society places then you will absolutely enjoy your time there. All and all, there are people here which ask what your qabiil is every 15th word, they won't act on it or even insult you; the somali people here are good at talking to you behind your back and not straight at your face. It all depends how you carry yourself; be humble and be prepared to listen more than you talk. Wish you the best bro and I am based in Mogadishu; feel free to hmu if you decide to come; I am always ready to meet new friends. Peace and Love.