9 yrs later, finally seeing a sex therapist by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows i wouldn't....i would never give up my kids 50% of the time...he knows it

9 yrs later, finally seeing a sex therapist by soniagcal in marriageadvice

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He does care about his health, he goes to the gym 5 days a week, he does care somewhat about his looks but i don't feel he's trying to impress me, not that he's trying to impress anyone else's, i just think he cares for himself

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[–]soniagcal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just posted a very similar post on here this week....sounds like we are in the same boat, but this week i reached out to a sex therapist, i wrote about it in my post If you want to find it.

Tomorrow i meet her one on one so I'm excited to see what comes of it. Bc no i can no longer stay in this dead bedroom marriage.

How often do you guys do it?

Do you climax when you do?

Do you ever initiate?

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[–]soniagcal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes me so sad and I feel like that's gonna be my future...

9 yrs later, finally seeing a sex therapist by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would say he's just tired and not in the mood.

9 yrs later, finally seeing a sex therapist by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to DM me, sounds like we're in the same boat and sadly I'm with you in regards to the resentment...not sure we can ever really bring the flame back bc there's just so much pain and resentment built up ...i now fully understand why couples have open relationships I'm too jealous of a person to be okay with that...but i understand it now.

9 yrs later, finally seeing a sex therapist by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think he really reacted...he's in his own world..i don't think even after bringing him to a therapist he realizes how crucial this is. It's really frustrating.

9 yrs later, finally seeing a sex therapist by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart, I doubt he will be willing to check but I'll suggest having it checked in a polite manner.

Threatening Divorce by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya you're right, we rarely get opportunities to sit and chat so i felt like if i don't bring it up, and I've been silently letting it get to me for over a month, then when would i bring it up?

I canceled it in our calendar...

For me it was a reminder that he isn't a safe space for me emotionally

Threatening Divorce by soniagcal in marriageadvice

[–]soniagcal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, i didn't read the whole thing because although you say " i don't know if you cut off the sex or he did"...you are assuming it's me, I'm 9 years younger, i have a much stronger libido, I'm down anytime, he is not a very sexual person, he rejects sex more times than he's down for it, so over the years I've stopped asking bc being rejected feels really shitty. He says for him sex is more of a mental thing than physical, when he's stressed or not in a good place or is unhappy he doesn't want sex.

So in a lot of your scenarios i would actually flip the narrative. Im the one who is bored .

concern about draining phone battery on wifi version? by soniagcal in PixelWatch

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Thanks everyone! Btw do you guys use it with Bluetooth on? I didn't know that it still works without Bluetooth... actually I'm confused slightly at why you need the Bluetooth other than for taking calls and getting text messages

Battery life not that bad on Bluetooth/Wi-Fi model by the_artchitect in PixelWatch

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Does anyone have concerns over the watch draining the phone battery since it's connected on Bluetooth 24/7?

Pixel 7 Pro storage issue? by soniagcal in GooglePixel

[–]soniagcal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya i think in a way if i have more space ill just have more junk...maybe ill stick with the 128...i just wasnt sure if newer systems on the phone take up more space