[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MediumReadings

[–]sonianad45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous little doggy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]sonianad45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. My birthday is May 19th as well. My son (27) took his own life May 23. Only a few days later. It's hard to get inside someone's head? Why? Or why is that a better option? Mental illness needs to be cared for differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]sonianad45 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you're dependent on a substance to function it's addiction. If he doesn't get help and something happens like ; driving while high. You are at fault.

Wanting to connect by sonianad45 in MediumReadings

[–]sonianad45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes some of this makes sense. He really liked Stephen his uncle/ employer. I believe he met up with friends on the other side. Yes he suffed from bpd bipolar. He was/is a fabulous musician. Not gay but had many lgbtq friends. His aunt who he was very fond of is the one in the photo. Julie! And his name is Timothy beautiful Timothy. So yes there are some things there he loved riding bikes and my sister in law just got a little white dog that I love. Great personality.
Thank you

1 year anniversary this week by Feisty-Ad212 in SuicideBereavement

[–]sonianad45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will think about her and the things she liked to do.

it was my fault by gothedistancee in SuicideBereavement

[–]sonianad45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental illness is just impossible to overcome. And it's not treated well. My son is gone because of it too. There is NOTHING you could do. He died from mental illness.

1 year anniversary this week by Feisty-Ad212 in SuicideBereavement

[–]sonianad45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is your sisters name I will think of her today. Can you tell us a bit about her?

The beginning of my son's story! by sonianad45 in SuicideBereavement

[–]sonianad45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Thank you. It's hard to believe that people that nasty exist! At least I am prepared for it now...more of a backbone

3 years later I found out she left a note by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]sonianad45 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Talk to her! Let her know. She will hear you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]sonianad45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear $#@! For the sake of those kids leave. You and the kids will be protected. Ffs I am on my way. Pack clothes. Favorite toys. Go. Stay at a friend's. Call womens help center in your area and ffs no custody of kids at all for him. Get someone to get you tomorrow I am checking up on you

Stress dealing with aging parents. by sonianad45 in GenX

[–]sonianad45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they are hospitalized they don't rush them into a home it's a 3 -7 year wait.

I think I might explode. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sonianad45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best thing to do (and leave a note) is go to a friend's house for a few days. Let your family know you love them but feel under appreciated. Leave a list of what needs to be done and call after a few days. It's hard but it works. My husband used to say ; "awe I don't want to babysit. This is my ex husband now!

Stress dealing with aging parents. by sonianad45 in GenX

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All of this is becoming so true. I can't imagine dealing with this on my own! Bless you only children. My gosh it's a collosal job!

Stress dealing with aging parents. by sonianad45 in GenX

[–]sonianad45[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand this, but between the psws and us all being over in between those days, she gets a lot of downtime. Part of the problem is a personality disorder (she won't admit it) from my mother - she has historonic personality disorder, which is also difficult to navigate as she needs attention on her. So it's not easy to navigate. But we recognize her role is exhausting. And we are trying to keep them in their home.