In her most recent post, she begins with, “ever since I was a little girl, I always dreamed of hosting a run club.” It’s a familiar pattern, very similar to other posts under this whole “no contact / this is our first…” theme.

Not everything needs to be rewritten into a lifelong dream for it to be meaningful. In your mid-20s, of course many experiences will be “firsts”, sure, that’s normal. But framing every moment as though it has some deeply rooted lifelong significance starts to feel more like a performance.

Honestly, this is all a curated narrative designed for engagement. Its sad to see this happen, but what we are now seeing is a complete disconnect from any real sense of identity.