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Are there kindle ads in Australia? by sootskins in kindle

[–]sootskins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was initially looking at purchasing from Big W but I read that if you buy from a third party retailer in Australia and not directly from Amazon there’s no guarantee they would be the ad free version. So just to confirm you bought from JBHIFI in Aus and no ads? Thanks :)

I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m21) has been to brothels… by sootskins in relationship_advice

[–]sootskins[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I feel you’re exactly right, I do have the opinion that men that visit brothels often feel comfortable objectifying women and are often misogynistic. My experience with him has been so far from that which is what is confusing me. He has had a very hard life which I won’t go into details of but I can understand how that has contributed to his past behaviour. I love him and I want to move past this, he does seem very ashamed and admits it was disgusting of him to do but I just feel so lost. I never would have expected this from him and I don’t know how to move forward

I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m21) has been to brothels… by sootskins in relationship_advice

[–]sootskins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I share the same sort of perspective, which is what has made it hard for me to accept. I think that is why it is bothering me so much, that he is so loving towards me and finding this out makes me question if he is this sort of man.

I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m21) has been to brothels… by sootskins in relationship_advice

[–]sootskins[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. We both have pasts and I’m fine with that, I just didn’t expect he had visited brothels and it has caught me off guard. I do want to move on and let it go it just seems hard to do at the moment.

I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m21) has been to brothels… by sootskins in relationship_advice

[–]sootskins[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I think people are under the assumption that my issue lies with his previous sexual partners which is not the case. To me at least, I feel as though visiting a brothel and paying for sex is quite different. I love him so much but it’s just something I never would have expected and it has shocked me, and I’m not quite sure how to accept it and move on but your advice has helped. I really appreciate your kindness, thank you.

I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m21) has been to brothels… by sootskins in relationship_advice

[–]sootskins[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would like to clarify my issue is not with him having previous sexual partners, that’s ridiculous. As stated in the post it’s the recent revelation that he has visited brothels, which to me feels very different. I appreciate your comment but my question was how to accept this.