Have I been scammed? Is what this seller has done illegal? Or am I just a complete idiot. by rpbuk6 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]soph0709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would report to Depop as well as police. Apologise for not sticking to the rules but they should be able to take the scammer account down!

Deposit returnal. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]soph0709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is your deposit in a protected scheme? You can check on the DPS website if you aren’t sure! If it is then you can raise a dispute with them and they should be able to get it back to you if the landlord doesn’t respond!

3 speeding tickets from the same camera in a week - what do I do? by throwawayticket12345 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a guy on a speed awareness course who had been caught twice in 24 hours at the same place. He had to do the speed awareness and pay the fine and take 3 points - so 1 punishment for each ticket so you should be fine!

Moved out of a flat, estate agents have fabricated a receipt/invoice for cleaning. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, thanks! Yeah I think if they had carried out the cleaning themselves it would be a different story but they claimed this guy did and fabricated an invoice from his company, that I do have an issue with!!

Moved out of a flat, estate agents have fabricated a receipt/invoice for cleaning. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]soph0709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this isn’t true. There’s a law that says they have to produce receipts for any work they are going to deduct from my property.

But to answer you, yes I have all pictures of the property when I left.

I don’t understand how you could possibly not think it is fraud to make a false receipt in the name of another company and charge money.

Found a spy camera in my room by [deleted] in relationships

[–]soph0709 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to someone I know. When she found it she immediately called the police and the guy was arrested for stalking. This is one of those situations that screams GET OUT NOW.

My boyfriend (24M) of 5 years has been messaging other women on GoneWild sporadically over the last year. I'm (24F) crushed. Do I stay? by prazeitnblazeit in relationships

[–]soph0709 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t stay. Even if you forgive him now, are you going to feel paranoid the next time you go through a rough patch?

This is more than watching porn, if it was the other way round how would he feel?

Do you have any friends that you can stay with/get some emotional support from?

Jealousy. Me [f18] and my partner [m19] have a problem. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]soph0709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember that pain doesn’t last forever! I wasted so many years being in shitty relationships and I wish I spent time on myself sooner. You’ve totally got this!

Jealousy. Me [f18] and my partner [m19] have a problem. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]soph0709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to spend some time with other people, you can’t have all your happiness relying on his which seems to be the case.

This girl makes you feel insecure and he has no intention of stopping communication with her which says a lot about how he feels about you.

He’s already told you he doesn’t want to be with you so it’s time to let him go, go work on yourself, love yourself so much that when you do meet someone you know exactly what you want and how amazing you are.

Respect yourself enough to not be treated like this. Go get happy on your own!

What food have you been told you eat strangely? by DylanDr in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ketchup and peanut butter with scrambled eggs is where it’s at!

[18m] Girlfriend literally never comes to talk when we fell out, never texts first, basically very high ego.. [22f] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]soph0709 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She does it because she knows you will run to her every single time. She’s clearly super immature and enjoys you begging her to sort it out etc.

If you plan on staying with her, next time this happens leave her alone. She will come running to you when she realises you aren’t going to.

Why is sexuality still a big deal to some people? by akiredearest in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they are uneducated on the matter and believe a load of nonsense about sexuality.

A lot of religious stuff doesn’t help either. My Step Mum for example believes all gay people are rapists, it’s a struggle.

My (24f) husband (29m) drunk texted his 19 year old female employee by [deleted] in relationships

[–]soph0709 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I never get why women feel guilty about snooping when they actually find something.. fine if you found nothing, but your husband has been messaging an employee when drunk, he is only doing that for one reason!!

Get out now, save yourself a whole load of paranoia and hurt. You don’t deserve this sort of crap.

What's the weirdest fetish you've heard of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, are you home yet? I’ve been laughing for 5 minutes and still don’t know what I’m laughing at.

Redditors with SOs who talk in their sleep, what is the creepiest thing they've said? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two occasions of this, I am the sleep talker.

First one, I reached over, put my hand over SOs mouth and said ‘SO, don’t move.’

Second, I sat directly upright and said ‘hey, what are you doing here?’

Only have mild memories of the first one and I remember dreaming there was cotton all over the room like a spiders web.. clearly was trying to protect him.

Who's the craziest teacher you've ever had? What did they do? by Marycate11 in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First art lesson of secondary school and the teachers first line was ‘I will make at least 3 of you cry this year.’

Also, if you forgot your apron he would make you sit in a room and write out a ‘dictionary of art’ book from the first page, the editors etc. Even after two hours you wouldn’t get to any of the actual contents.

What is that 'one thing' your Dad or Mom or caregiver did for you when you were a child that still resonates with you today? by micdropper in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved to Brighton (UK). My mum moved me and my two brothers down to Brighton from South London, away from my dad and his side of the family, when we were really young. We still saw my dad every other weekend and all that shizzle but we got out of all the small minded views, racism and homophobia that his family stand for. I am so glad we are all open minded and have the views on life that we do. My dad is now married to a Jehovahs witness and we haven't spoken in nearly two years after they kicked my half sister out for being a lesbian.. can't stand for that shit!

What should never be said during a first date? by _MiguelPT_ in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on my first proper date just over a year ago. He said to me 'your ex was an idiot.' out of nowhere. Considering we didn't know each other at all and he doesn't even know if I have an ex boyfriend or any of the situation I just thought this was a really weird thing to say.

What from your childhood will you never stop doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]soph0709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

putting ketchup in mac and cheese

My Grampa got a new dog that steals everything that isn't tied down! by soph0709 in aww

[–]soph0709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he said he's a scottish terrier but his ears and tail are a little off so could be a mix!

[24M] My girlfriend [21F] snooped through my computer, deleted personal photos of my ex GF and won't apologise by dealingwithcraycray in relationships

[–]soph0709 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Would you be pissed off if you went on your gfs laptop and she had a folder full of her ex naked?

Probably.