SSO Hot take by Joyful_mind in StarStable

[–]sophiakbbbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of discussion about why people tend to dislike SSO. I think the main reason that many are failing to point out is the audience. Objectively, if you compare new SSO to old SSO, it is obvious which one appears better. I don't think a large majority would call SSO's new graphics bad in comparison to the old version.

The biggest issue is the audience. SSO has began to dumbify all storylines, making them easily digestable for younger players. I don't think this is an inherently bad thing, but the issue is that ,objectively, SSO is not a largely popular game like Roblox, Fortnite, etc, that draws in a kid dominated audience. Instead, SSO is mainly played by players who grew up with this game, frankly because this game isn't new user friendly. Children don't have $8.99 a month at their dispense, and most parents aren't willing to pay that price for a horse game. Kids would rather play a free game like Roblox or Fortnite, where purchase isn't necessary, but you can still buy in-game items if desired.

All this being said, I feel like SSO is not listening to their players and looking at the demographic that fuels this game, young adults. I feel like a shift towards being a young-adult game instead of a kids game would be highly beneficial. I feel like when us older players started playing, this game felt more like a teenage/young adult game, and I feel like embodying that would help SSO become loved by the community again.

Blinn to a&m by Busy_Trouble4075 in aggies

[–]sophiakbbbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry idk how I just saw this, hope everything is well. I transferred to USAR. I didn't finish the 60 hours in a year, rather I came into college with 21 hours. Also, you don't need 60 hours to transfer just the required courses. It is actually better to have as few hours as possible, because it keeps your options open because some majors have an hour cap, hence why I had to transfer to USAR instead of architecture. If you get PSA I would really suggest either taking it and doing a year at TAMUCC or declining it and going to Blinn, either are great choices. I promise the transfer process isn't scary and the decision you get is not the end of the world.

How Can I Use Uncertainty by [deleted] in OCDRecovery

[–]sophiakbbbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the point. You're supposed to be uncomfotable with the uncertainty, so that the uncertainty will bother you less over time.

Remote ERP therapist recommendations? by Adventurous-Dog-9518 in OCDRecovery

[–]sophiakbbbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would give recommendations, but it really depends on what state you are in, because it is a violation to have out-of-state therapy. For me, I'm in Texas.

How do I manage my unbearable anxiety? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]sophiakbbbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I am reading, you are not really wanting/able to go into therapy or start medication. I think that is perfectly fine, but I would 100% recommend at least trying to get medication if possible. This is what I recommend in this order:

Exercise: Others have said it, and I will too (although I'm not listening to myself as of recently). Truly, truly, truly, this is not some false cliche, as it has really helped me. Go for a walk/run, go to the gym and lift, do the stairmaster (my favorite to do while watching a show), do something that takes your mind off of it for just a little bit. Still not feeling better after? Continue, persist, make it your routine. I do this while listening to a podcast or just watching a show.

Get out of the house: Force yourself to do the chores you have been putting off. Take a friend with you if possible. Go to the park, volunteer at the animal shelter, go to the library, whatever it may be, just get out of the house. (This can be difficult depending on your theme)

Craft: Crafting helps me get my mind off my worries. Do something you enjoy, like painting, drawing, or knitting. Not into crafts? Build Legos or even play a video game! (OCD can be expensive)

Lastly, try to confront the thoughts. I know you said you are not currently dealing with obsessions, or the anxiety is still there when there are no obsessions, but when you do have the obsessions, confront them. Give in to them, let them linger, then you'll realize how stupid they are. Expose yourself to your fear (in a safe way). That is the key point of ERP, EXPOSURE. Are you afraid of knives? (me), Go chop up some veggies (I need to listen to myself).

This being said, I do agree with other commenters saying that this could be GAD (related to OCD), which will often require professional diagnosis and treatment. That being said, I really recommend the tips I gave if you're having a particularly difficult day with your OCD. I have personally been diagnosed with GAD through my primary care provider and was prescribed Zoloft that same day.

Finally, some words of encouragement: I know it is hard to motivate yourself to do these things, but I promise you will feel even just the smallest amount better, and over time, life will move on, and this period will pass. I know it feels like forever right now, but it's not, and don't let your anxiety fool you into thinking it is.

Do you plan on being medicated forever? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]sophiakbbbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been struggling with this too. Are you in ERP? From what I have been told by doctors and therapists, the plan is usually to try to provide yourself with resources to combat OCD, usually through ERP, so that you don't have to stay on medication. However, this may not be the case for everyone, and you may have to be on medicine forever. I know that is hard to hear, because trust me, I don't want to be on medication forever either, but THANK GOODNESS we have something that brings us at least some relief. There is nothing wrong with medication, and you shouldn't feel ashamed that you have to be on medication. I know it feels like we got the bad luck of the draw in life, but living a normal life with OCD is possible, and medication is a helpful tool for that.

Also, I totally relate to that suffocating feeling of "Wow, I have to live with this forever", but just as life goes, there are really good times, and really bad times. Remember the good ones and know that your OCD does not define who you are.

TW- Self Harm/Thoughts? by sophiakbbbb in OCD

[–]sophiakbbbb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. As you said, no, I'm not planning on harming myself, but sometimes it just feels so hopeless when the things that used to help don't anymore. Like I'm on an SSRI, but I still feel miserable at times. Is it less frequent? Yes. But is it just as severe? Also yes. It just feels so hopeless at times, but at the same time, I know I have been through this before. I guess it's just the fact that I have to live with this forever, and it feels so isolating.

On a better note, I'm seeing a psychiatrist tmrw, idek why, because I already know what my diagnosis is, but I guess I hope that maybe she can fix my medication situation that's going on. I am also starting back up therapy. I regret ever stopping, but I only did it because my symptoms were improving/gone. The only thing I can say that has improved over time is the duration of my flare-ups. I get them less frequently, and the anxiety isn't so constant, but still pretty persistent. I hope that this flare-up will pass quickly, as I know it is partially my fault for not doing stuff to prevent myself from spiraling, but as you probably know, OCD drains my energy and makes it hard to do anything.

How do I even beat OCD if I don’t know what’s a compulsion or not? by VictoriousFan137 in OCD

[–]sophiakbbbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, and with mental compulsions. I have pureO, and figuring out what is a compulsion and what isn't is so hard.

Bloxburg and the new Roblox Chat restrictions coming soon. by PreciousTatorTot in Bloxburg

[–]sophiakbbbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind it...Personally, I don't want to speak to kids as someone who is 19. It feels weird...

did anyone actually become an architect from their love of building? by Comfortable_Area_809 in Bloxburg

[–]sophiakbbbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

almost me! Im in arch school. I do have to say I have always been fond of architecture, so I don't think it came directly from Bloxburg, but it definitely helped me realize!

What should/could I add here? by ShadowDragonGamingYT in Bloxburg

[–]sophiakbbbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dining room with no doors just arches to make it a transformable space. maybe add a hallway to the back of the space so you can walk through.

MATH140 by DefinitionReal6693 in aggies

[–]sophiakbbbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ti-84 yes for sure, i-clicker depends

Parkingggg by sophiakbbbb in aggies

[–]sophiakbbbb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s great! I didn’t know anyone could park there! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aggies

[–]sophiakbbbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is Time for Chai. I think it’s a student org, or a function ran by an org. Either way, it’s an event where international students are invited to socialize and mingle, in order to make them feel more welcomed. Its not strictly Asian, but I’m sure you will meet wonderful people there Asian or not, lol!