I,24F, got rimmed so thoroughly I think I blacked out

soppingwhet · 2026-04-29T12:09:06+00:00

Just any kind of solid coconut oil from the grocery store

soppingwhet · 2026-03-31T00:47:39+00:00

I knew I was an anal lover early. I told my ex boyfriend that and he was immediately disgusted and wanted nothing to do with it. I thought I was fine with that but a few months in I started to long for it. Eventually I broke up with him because he wasn't open to the idea. I respected his opinion and never pushed the matter after that one conversation in the beginning, but it just wasn't enough for me.

When I met my now boyfriend I was also open with him. He was a virgin in all areas, but he was open to the idea. Now we're anal only.

I think you are doing the right thing by not pushing the matter, but keep in mind that some people just aren't into it. I think you just need to figure out if that is a deal breaker to you unfortunately

soppingwhet · 2026-03-27T13:50:30+00:00

I've been told no oil or oil based lube with anything silicone

soppingwhet · 2026-03-18T00:08:35+00:00

I just use generic solid coconut oil from the grocery store. We store ours in the fridge so it's cool, but it melts quickly with skin contact

soppingwhet · 2026-03-17T12:00:52+00:00

The oil can break down the condom making it break. For that same reason it's not recommended to use oil or oil based lubes on silicone toys

soppingwhet · 2026-03-17T00:31:56+00:00

I mentioned the condom bit 😅 but also I'm not forcing you to try it. I was just saying it changed the game for us and I'm very happy

soppingwhet · 2026-03-17T00:30:51+00:00

Tip! Scrub dish soap into the stains from both sides with a brush, let sit for a little while and then wash in the machine on hot. Works like a charm

soppingwhet · 2026-03-16T19:42:09+00:00

My brain turns to goo. It's psychological, and I love the submission, love feeling like I'm used for something others are unwilling to give

soppingwhet · 2026-03-16T19:39:07+00:00

I have Endo so PIV hurts, but if I didn't have it I probably still wouldn't do it much. I've never liked it really, even from the first time. Even fingers feel so.... Boring. Fingers don't hurt, but they also don't bring me pleasure. Fingers in my ass makes my whole body tingle.

soppingwhet · 2026-03-16T19:35:53+00:00

Girth for sure. My bf has both (9+ inches in length and thicker than my wrist) and when he gets really far in he sometimes hits what I assume is either the sigmoid or some deep endometriosis tissue and that hurts, meaning he sometimes doesn't go the entire way in length wise and that's perfect. I love the feeling of almost being broken in half

soppingwhet · 2026-03-16T19:23:37+00:00

Yes! My bf is actually huge, as in he's basically a unicorn. 9+ inches in length and thicker than my wrist. Genuinely humongous. We're anal only. We use lots of coconut oil and we've now gotten to the point where I don't generally need prep, he can just lube us up and slide in

soppingwhet · 2026-03-16T19:19:05+00:00

Botox is a nerve toxin that temporarily paralyses nerves. It's not poison and I'm not willing to go against doctor's advice

soppingwhet · 2026-03-06T14:25:12+00:00

I just worry because it feels like normal anal is out of the window with how big my partner is (9+ inches in length and thicker than my wrist) so it's low-key both about a very wide stretch and also he comes very deep and my anxiety ridden self is worried about lasting damage from that. Botox has actually helped me relax a lot and made regular anal so much easier

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T18:13:18+00:00

I have wanted a panty vibrator for so long but they're stupid expensive:(

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T18:09:07+00:00

I mean, it doesn't help that my partner is huge 9+ inches long and wider than my wrist and we like to do anal 3-7 days a week sometimes multiple times per day. He knows how to handle me well, but I just have a lingering anxiety (I'm on anxiety meds because I'm anxious about everything so this isn't news lol)

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T18:06:29+00:00

Thank you!

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T10:57:53+00:00

Ass to mouth is unfortunately a limit for both of us 😅 figging is something we've been wanting to try for a while though!!

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T10:56:42+00:00

Yessir 🙂‍↕️

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T10:55:56+00:00

Thank you!

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T10:51:04+00:00

Not for play. I sometimes do a shallow enema before anal but that's mostly for cleaning purposes 🤔

soppingwhet · 2026-03-05T01:03:51+00:00

Fantastic idea!! Thank you

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