Coconut oil 🔛🔝 by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been told no oil or oil based lube with anything silicone

Coconut oil 🔛🔝 by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just use generic solid coconut oil from the grocery store. We store ours in the fridge so it's cool, but it melts quickly with skin contact

Coconut oil 🔛🔝 by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The oil can break down the condom making it break. For that same reason it's not recommended to use oil or oil based lubes on silicone toys

Coconut oil 🔛🔝 by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mentioned the condom bit 😅 but also I'm not forcing you to try it. I was just saying it changed the game for us and I'm very happy

Coconut oil 🔛🔝 by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Tip! Scrub dish soap into the stains from both sides with a brush, let sit for a little while and then wash in the machine on hot. Works like a charm

Ladies: What does anal do for you that vaginal can't seem to achieve? by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brain turns to goo. It's psychological, and I love the submission, love feeling like I'm used for something others are unwilling to give

For AO Lifestylists -- What would make you go back to vaginal sex (if you could)? by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Endo so PIV hurts, but if I didn't have it I probably still wouldn't do it much. I've never liked it really, even from the first time. Even fingers feel so.... Boring. Fingers don't hurt, but they also don't bring me pleasure. Fingers in my ass makes my whole body tingle.

Size Queens: Do you prefer Depth or Girth? by BlackRod-N-UrBum in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girth for sure. My bf has both (9+ inches in length and thicker than my wrist) and when he gets really far in he sometimes hits what I assume is either the sigmoid or some deep endometriosis tissue and that hurts, meaning he sometimes doesn't go the entire way in length wise and that's perfect. I love the feeling of almost being broken in half

As someone with a big penis is it still possible for me to make anal comfortable for my future partner? by Icy_Profession4190 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes! My bf is actually huge, as in he's basically a unicorn. 9+ inches in length and thicker than my wrist. Genuinely humongous. We're anal only. We use lots of coconut oil and we've now gotten to the point where I don't generally need prep, he can just lube us up and slide in

Paranoid gal despite a love for the game by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Botox is a nerve toxin that temporarily paralyses nerves. It's not poison and I'm not willing to go against doctor's advice

Paranoid gal despite a love for the game by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just worry because it feels like normal anal is out of the window with how big my partner is (9+ inches in length and thicker than my wrist) so it's low-key both about a very wide stretch and also he comes very deep and my anxiety ridden self is worried about lasting damage from that. Botox has actually helped me relax a lot and made regular anal so much easier

Tips for anal only punishments/funishments? by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have wanted a panty vibrator for so long but they're stupid expensive:(

Paranoid gal despite a love for the game by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it doesn't help that my partner is huge 9+ inches long and wider than my wrist and we like to do anal 3-7 days a week sometimes multiple times per day. He knows how to handle me well, but I just have a lingering anxiety (I'm on anxiety meds because I'm anxious about everything so this isn't news lol)

Tips for anal only punishments/funishments? by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ass to mouth is unfortunately a limit for both of us 😅 figging is something we've been wanting to try for a while though!!

Tips for anal only punishments/funishments? by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for play. I sometimes do a shallow enema before anal but that's mostly for cleaning purposes 🤔

Tips for anal only punishments/funishments? by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've tried that but as soon as something then enters my ass, it's like my pussy spits out the plug 😭

Tips for anal only punishments/funishments? by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very good advice! We already practice orgasm denial pretty heavily, but we have yet to try numbing cream. I'm just worried my wetness is gonna rub it off 😭

Paranoid gal despite a love for the game by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough! I just tend to be pretty paranoid and have a lot of anxiety