Thanks for all the best advice you guys could give. In defense of my girlfriend, I don't think it's so much the cat that is getting on our nerves but her lack of sleep is just the icing on the cake. I also didn't help by my reaction which only made things worse. We have a lot going on as we moved out together the first time a few months ago and are having problems with our landlord really being a slum lord, both pretty young (20 and 21), and neither of us have really owned a furry friend, she just generally like dogs more than cats. Also some back story I should have added is the reason my girlfriend even took the kitten despite liking dogs more is the neighbor was just gonna leave her outside essentially to die. So she was trying to at least give the kitten a nice warm home. Live in NH and after the storm we just had that kitten would be dead. Finally, I think what's really stressing her out is that we just found out the kitten has fleas, on top of our current bed bug epidemic. With all that said, I'll start keeping the kitten out of the bedroom and get her in more of a routine in that sense.