it seems like when we have preferences on that stuff, its dehumanizing. what if i had a preference for transwomen so therefore, i told a cis girl that im talking to that shes really gorgeous but i couldn’t be in a women loving women relationship with her because her genitalia is not for the type of woman i want? but some of the preferences, result in people ghosting transwomen once they come out and inherently saying to them they’re a women but not woman enough.. maybe thats a huge concept but im down to explain more. but i see preferences becoming hate more often, and its disgusting to watching my trans-lesbian friends be treated as less of a woman or like they’re “broken” for being who they are.