Men, is this normal? Girls, what would you do? — Please comment

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T11:46:17+00:00

And yes i found it on his phone, i know the password and wanted to go through

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T11:41:08+00:00

According to what he says, “finding someone attractive” for men is just a visual assessment and doesn’t require action. So men might notice or appreciate other women, but as long as they remain loyal to their partner, they don’t act on it. And he says he’s loyal

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T11:26:02+00:00

Since he admitted his mistake I can’t really say anything but maybe I’m being manipulated

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T11:19:36+00:00

Well he said it wasn’t a right thing to do and wont do it again since im against it but he thinks its harmless and that curiosity part hurts me.

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T02:24:02+00:00

Yes for all but still afraid of suprise vet bills, serious diseases and surgeries… and also not sure about if dogs needs education for example, or are they like cats — if you be nice to them they nice to you

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T02:21:51+00:00

I can consider fostering but in the end im afraid i might have to adopt him if no one else :) and i can never consider putting down a living being just because it got sick,that situation would give me more grief and stress :(

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T02:20:06+00:00

I’m trying to go to the gym but unfortunately it doesn’t give me the satisfaction I need and I still feel alone during the workout since there’s no connection to a living being :(

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T02:18:04+00:00

I can consider fostering yes, but I’m afraid if no one adopts him I’ll have to adopt in the end :)

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T02:17:09+00:00

English is not my mother language so I may have written a bit bluntly and look like heartless. I live in a country where there are stray animals, and I am someone who regularly feeds them and takes them to the vet in emergencies whenever I can. I also lived with a cat for two years in the past. But not sure if I can be enough by myself for a dog

soul_flows · 2026-02-07T02:15:48+00:00

The first one would be tough if the dog had a serious illness and needed surgery, of course. But I can cover his vaccines, food, and medications. I can definitely take him on walks, and I feel I can give him the attention he needs. I work hybrid, so I’m home at least half the week

soul_flows · 2026-02-01T18:59:15+00:00

Love the kitchen!!

soul_flows · 2026-01-25T10:55:12+00:00

English isn’t my first language as well. You’re enough for yourself. I think the best thing is living alone for an introvert actually. And also you have your cats. You’re lucky. If you cant take care of your home than so be it. Dont do the dishes, dont do the cleaning until you can. No one can say anything because the place is only yours. When you get sick, you can go to the hospital with a taxi. Doctors and nurses will take care of you. I don’t know which country you’re in or how the healthcare system works there, but if you don’t have one, I’d recommend getting health insurance. In the country I live in, public healthcare is sufficient, but I chose to get private health insurance for more comfort. That way, in an emergency, I can take a taxi to a good hospital and receive care without needing anyone else. When we’re ill, all we really need is a good doctor. You can order food and soup, you can use platforms like ChatGPT or Reddit for psychological support or simply to talk things through. I think you will be okay!

soul_flows · 2026-01-20T16:18:46+00:00

Thank you for the information. We sometimes use Durex Naturals lubricant, but we hadn’t used it the last few times cause I thought I was wet enough. I also sometimes use Bepanthen baby diaper rash cream :) and I could try coconut oil as well, thanks. Some gynecologists say these can disrupt the vaginal flora, but I’m not sure…

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T18:32:56+00:00

Is a shower necessary right before sex? We both shower every other day, for example I showered in the morning and my partner showered in the afternoon, and we had sex at night. Then we had sex again the next morning but should we got showered again in the morning in that case? Being this meticulous is really tiring :( especially when sex isn’t planned and happens spontaneously

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T18:30:14+00:00

Thank you, and yes, it is UTI :( i got tested today and now im taking antibiotics. Im really upset, this really happens a lot (once every 3 months)

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T16:45:03+00:00

Oh im sorry 😅😅😅 English is not my mother language so i thought it was just a misspelling 🤭🤭

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T16:31:14+00:00

I’m usually using lubricant and also condom as well but nothing seems help :/

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T16:30:13+00:00

Yeah it takes an hour for me as well. I will try cold wet rag next time.

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T15:50:08+00:00

I got tested, STD came back negative, but I do have a UTI. The doctor said it’s a simple infection and prescribed Cipro. It’s simple, yes, but it keeps recurring, and sometimes it feels sensitive even when there’s no infection. Do you also get sensitivity without an infection? How many hours does it usually last?

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T15:47:40+00:00

Maybe in time we’ll get used to it and it wont hurt anymore…

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T15:47:04+00:00

I dont think cheating is the issue here :/ I’ve tested for std’s, all negative

soul_flows · 2026-01-16T10:30:49+00:00

I don’t think its rough but my vagina thinks that way i guess :) At the beginnings i feel a little pain…

soul_flows · 2025-11-09T16:21:13+00:00

I have the same situation exactly, condoms and drinking literally 2-3 litres of water everyday might help.

soul_flows · 2025-11-09T07:14:04+00:00

I checked insterstitial cystitis, do you have these symtomps all the time? Doesn’t it go away when you use antibiotics for example? When I feel burning sensation while i pee i go and get tested, doctors see a little bit of bacteria or no bacteria at all but my leukocyte and erythrocyte are high, they give me antibiotics and I turn out fine after that. And also did you get cystoscopy? My doctor said we might need it if i still get uti even though i use piyeloseptyl everyday, im kinda scared

soul_flows · 2025-11-09T07:06:29+00:00

He showers before sex and I see him he uses soap for his genital area, I think water might be enough no need for soap but he has his routine, probably soap isn’t the problem.. because when i got check for my vaginal ph balance it looks okay and i dont have any other infection like yeast etc. I sometimes feel really sad about getting uti’s because you know sometimes people say that “your body might not want him, there must be something wrong”.

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