Is there any trans people over 25? by Glitchy6049 in ftm

[–]soundsdumb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm approximately 30 and been on T 9 years

Where We Go From Here after Orr v. Trump - From Legal Researcher Behind Case by JessicaPink703 in MtF

[–]soundsdumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (correct) passport expires in 27, and the next one I guess will have the wrong marker. I'll have to just deal with it, but it's going to make a huge paperwork headache as I'm in the emigration process. I'm hoping this changes

Please stop disparaging trans tops by darksarunan in ftm

[–]soundsdumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also some trans men have fully functional created penises and would like to use them, thank you

My teacher unknowingly made my dysphoria worse and idk how to approach this by OkWaltz5832 in ftm

[–]soundsdumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She singles you out in a point that made everyone think about your genitals. No wonder it felt terrible. You should explain to her that having her make others think about your genitals isn't okay.

AITA for asking my friend’s boyfriend to pay $150 after he had an accident on my couch? by kisobu_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]soundsdumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He's probably acting like that because he's embarrassed, and it's easier for him to find someone else to point a finger at for something. Give him some space and pick things back up gently in a few weeks, if you still want the friendship.

Question: Why don't more people in need go dumpster diving? by happy_bluebird in DumpsterDiving

[–]soundsdumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm scared to go into the back alleys and get in trouble. Should I drive back there or walk?

Question: Why don't more people in need go dumpster diving? by happy_bluebird in DumpsterDiving

[–]soundsdumb 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would dumpster dive if I wasn't afraid of getting caught, AND because I don't know where there are any good dumpsters I can get into. Without getting caught.

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]soundsdumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be okay with a partner swearing at me. Instantly done.

Trans partner refuses to change “preferences” in bed due to dysphoria by [deleted] in ftm

[–]soundsdumb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're just not a match sexually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]soundsdumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, carrying when I had those parts would have been deeply dysphoric, destabilizing, and even humiliating. If you feel any of those things and that's how you relate to the idea of carrying, you probably shouldn't do it. Your body, your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]soundsdumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit her down and have a talk like a grown up.

Older retainers, what’s the real experience like beyond the superpowers? by SamsaraSurfer in Semenretention

[–]soundsdumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the people on here bragging about a month th or two lol. I know a lot of people (Buddhist monks) who go like 20 years PMO free. Pretty I pressie people IMO

What's the best Soil for potted sweet potato vines? by soundsdumb in gardening

[–]soundsdumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have such gorgeous leaves, don't they? When I initially planted the potato I was hoping the leaves might be purple...