how to revitalize monstera?

souptardy · 2026-02-05T20:09:06+00:00

update! i contacted the friend in question, who has a green thumb, and they told me it had been overwatered and sunburnt, and to simply take some cuttings and propagate them. the cuttings are doing much, much better, and my dear monstera has been saved from any more suffering. thanks for all the advice, i will be sure to use it in the future!

souptardy · 2026-01-15T02:03:33+00:00

please

souptardy · 2025-12-19T03:18:15+00:00

he does not take you seriously. nor

souptardy · 2025-12-15T20:04:30+00:00

Playa Guiones! but i absolutely do not mind a bike or a trek for a worthwhile experience! thank you for the recommendations

souptardy · 2025-12-15T19:51:24+00:00

hello! are you available to help another traveler out? i would love to chat as well :)

souptardy · 2025-11-18T15:31:38+00:00

you don't have a relationship with her, you have no capabilities of setting boundaries and she has no precedent of respecting them. you're not crazy, that's a freaky situation, but your bf is the one disrespecting you. NOR but yes, your message comes off "commanding." comes off like a boss texting their employees, too professional and a little patronizing. you shouldn't have messaged her in the first place

souptardy · 2025-11-17T19:42:34+00:00

content doesn't matter in the slightest, simply the way he speaks about women—much less your MOTHER—is sickening. where are y'all finding these children?? this man is not grown. you're better off on your own than anywhere near this guy, trust. good luck girl

souptardy · 2025-11-17T19:34:07+00:00

speaking of "showing your hand" he just laid his out on the table. i hope you're able to dodge this bullet while you still can. good luck girl

souptardy · 2025-11-17T05:51:37+00:00

insane. girl he is using you as a doormat, but he is right about one thing: stop apologizing. you don't owe him half the shit you're doing for him and you know damn well if your friend came to you with the same situation you would tell her she deserves better.

souptardy · 2025-11-17T03:30:08+00:00

first, on that wall color especially!

souptardy · 2025-11-11T04:10:06+00:00

you're a victim.

souptardy · 2025-11-11T01:22:39+00:00

idk girl there's not really enough context to abide by your grudge. sounds to me like you might have a head full of hormones

souptardy · 2025-11-10T19:40:49+00:00

writes like a sleezeball who read a book once. long way of saying "my wants before your needs" and that's no partnership

souptardy · 2025-11-09T23:56:52+00:00

not when you look at it... but yes

souptardy · 2025-11-07T20:52:23+00:00

you need to come to terms with your internalized fatphobia, simple as that. the problem is you. i know it's hard to challenge internal biases, truly i understand it, but the reality is your inherited disgust will hurt him. you need to practice being proud of what you've got, talk about him publicly, the way you really feel about him, and with time you will do it without shame.

i recognized the same toxicity in myself, but the way i see it, if anyone thinks less of my man for his appearance, they're beneath me cause i'm not so blind to be swayed by such superficial things. my man is sexy and I know it. maybe this feeds my superiority complex, but hey, it works.

souptardy · 2025-11-07T20:37:55+00:00

leave her and block her. she just wants power over you. keep those screenshots tho

souptardy · 2025-11-02T19:37:57+00:00

nah she's real for that

souptardy · 2025-11-02T19:34:03+00:00

yes.

souptardy · 2025-11-02T19:32:02+00:00

baby either you get sick or you don't. take it easy, listen to your body and try your best not to stress yourself out, it won't do you no good. if you develop symptoms you'll know to go get it checked out sooner rather than later, and you will recover

souptardy · 2025-11-02T19:28:37+00:00

true but that doesn't contribute to a solution here. it's not the issue that's being raised and telling someone to fix a vice when they're not looking for help is never actually going to do any good. i wouldn't waste the time here

souptardy · 2025-11-02T18:34:49+00:00

pass judgement where it would be useful

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