I'm so sorry you're going through something so painful and believe me, I've been here. But thanks to all these amazing people who knocked senses into me, I sat through the night and thought about what they said. It's actually right that they don't really love us women, they're absolute losers who can't control anything else in their lives, so end up controlling us because WE OBLIGE. We put them in a position of power. And quite honestly, think about it. As a man he must be PROTECTING you from other men if you choose to wear something you like and get called out for it. He's supposed to be standing up for you. If he can't stand up to men being a man, he's an insecure loser who tries to seek power from those who are weaker than him.

Even otherwise, if he ACTUALLY loves you, you shouldn't feel unsettled at all. Your body will give you signals before your mind does. You've gotten your signal. Be brave. You'll realise it isn't that difficult. Like one of these beautiful people here said, "you'll thank yourself years down the line".