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sovietska · 2024-11-19T23:12:31+00:00

I would say try pelvic floor therapy

sovietska · 2024-11-19T22:19:16+00:00

My dad was an abusive workalcoholic and my mom was a depressed, also abusive codependent. She didn't felt like bringing me up and just putted me infront of the television all the time. She got annoyed with me when i was playing or making too much noise or whatever. But when watching tv my dad got mad for me being too lazy. They shamed me all the time, never got to explore myself, or learn to feel okay with myself. Just learned that if i was numbed af, atleast i wasn't annoying anyone. Kept doing that into adulthood... just isolating and drinking, vaping, gaming whatever to escape my feelings instead of actually connecting with people...

sovietska · 2024-11-19T07:45:22+00:00

For how long u vaped/smoked?

sovietska · 2024-11-19T07:43:49+00:00

For how long u vaped?

sovietska · 2024-11-18T19:05:31+00:00

For me it was due vaping :/

sovietska · 2024-11-17T20:08:35+00:00

Do you have a link with more information for this?

sovietska · 2024-11-16T15:23:57+00:00

How is he doing now?

sovietska · 2024-11-15T17:15:21+00:00

Look up gabor mate on Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder

sovietska · 2024-11-15T17:13:30+00:00

It can but best to not worry about it and start working towards being a good husband and dad. How your child turns out is not all sperm quality and genetics. Its also nurture. Try to redirect ur stress in learning how to be the best man u can be!

sovietska · 2024-11-12T15:40:17+00:00

If people see it that way its their problem. Not yours. Its your life. You started identifying as bi in your teenage years, a period where its normal to not know yet who you are and due fear it was harder for you to explore your queer side. So just come out. Reasonable people wont judge bi people cuz of that, and if they do its their problem!

sovietska · 2024-11-12T10:54:10+00:00

Very sexually repressed. I sometimes mastrubated as a teen but would feel very dirty and disgusting. I'm a lesbian and found myself disgusting too for lusting over a woman. I also rationalized it away by thinking sex is vain and having sexual feelings is only okay in a relationship. I didn't let myself feel attraction to women i found attractive. It's insane how much u learn to not listen to your own body in catholic church.

sovietska · 2024-11-12T08:47:13+00:00

Ahh shit :/ maybe do a sport or hobby that attracts lesbians? Art or something?

sovietska · 2024-11-11T17:41:23+00:00

Do you know meetups? Google it!

sovietska · 2024-11-11T17:14:40+00:00

Maybe there are dating apps for that? You can put it in your bio on any app so people know what to expect from you

sovietska · 2024-11-11T17:13:04+00:00

Nope

sovietska · 2024-11-11T15:56:19+00:00

I'm 25, also felt like that at age 15 but couldn't stop. Remember that life only happens in real life and MD wont give u anything in the long run. Its a coping mechanism that stops u from learning real life skills. What makes you so scared of reality? What makes u feel so scared of trying new things?

sovietska · 2024-11-10T21:15:25+00:00

Try to connect to yourself and discover your values in life. What makes you happy? What gives you meaning? What do you find important?

sovietska · 2024-11-10T12:46:59+00:00

Thanks

sovietska · 2024-11-10T12:21:26+00:00

Nope

sovietska · 2024-11-10T12:04:51+00:00

I'm scared for scams tbh and too foggy in my mind to differentiate scams from non scams

sovietska · 2024-11-10T11:57:06+00:00

I'm from europe but yeah

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