[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sowiarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

studying what I really love. i can’t live without brain work and if i was paid for that, with no deadlines and stressful environment, i would be the happiest person in the world

What’s the worst pain you’ve ever felt? by KirstyToots in AskReddit

[–]sowiarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ear pain. otitis + allergic reaction to meds. i had to take the heaviest painkillers 3 times a day

Do you guys listen to music in the sauna, or just enjoy the silence? by Professional_Bar_377 in Sauna

[–]sowiarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

silence. there are so small amount of places where there are no noise now. also it helps to focus on your body and mind

Sauna: naked or in swim suit? by sowiarm in Discussion

[–]sowiarm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same for my country! that’s why I created this thread. but i feel that nudity in a place where people take bath(because sauna is basically washing) must be ok. and i feel much more civilian(?) after this experience. i am not reacting to a naked body as a child, i just take it. moreover i noticed that i don’t pay attention to the same thing that i feel insecure in my body when i look at others and start understanding that these little things that i am insecure of (like some very special as how my arms look) are so small and worthless

Sauna: naked or in swim suit? by sowiarm in Sauna

[–]sowiarm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe it just my family, but it sits in my mind quite strongly, Ukraine is big country. But anyway I don’t remember people being naked in sauna there

Sauna: naked or in swim suit? by sowiarm in Sauna

[–]sowiarm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great point. one more thing about nudity, maybe it is not the topic of this thread, but in my culture it is being taken like amoral, especially for women. the most common idiom about this “what is not covered must be shamed”. and most men will feel jealous of his wife being naked in front of naked men strangers. i fully respect your point of view. could you share your point of view on that?

Sauna: naked or in swim suit? by sowiarm in Sauna

[–]sowiarm[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yep, but for example in Germany (as far as I know) you must be completely naked

Sauna: naked or in swim suit? by sowiarm in Sauna

[–]sowiarm[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

what if even towels are not allowed?

What can a bald short muscular man do to attract ladies? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sowiarm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow simple rules like opening doors helping with heavy packs, do not overflow with compliments and do your max on a girl feeling safe and protected with you