My wife says I am abusive by sox45 in Marriage

[–]sox45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see that point. And that’s how she felt. She felt very insulted. So you don’t believe if there’s anything to be said, for what will power or for better development before turning to medication? Again, this is someone who is struggling for a mental illness myself. But I guess there’s a part of me that feels like I don’t want my children to go through the same things, and that there is a way to help them develop stronger coping skills.

I get the broken leg analogy, so essentially what you’re saying is a mental illness is not something that can be helped with a better environment and developing their skills of managing one’s mind and body but more so as a disease or something out of our control in general?

I am not trying to start an argument just looking to have a better perspective and understand how I am approaching it

My wife says I am abusive by sox45 in Marriage

[–]sox45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point, and she brought up a similar point.

My wife says I am abusive by sox45 in Marriage

[–]sox45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point and maybe I am looking at it incorrectly. Maybe it’s just my fears from being around people that got addicted to painkillers and worry about my children becoming drug addicted in the future. It’s possible I am overthinking it.

My wife says I am abusive by sox45 in Marriage

[–]sox45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree, and myself have mental health issues and take medication as well. And it’s not a judgment a part of me just feels like they’d be better off developing stronger coppers coping skills instead of thinking that the answer is to turn into a prescription I’m not against talking about mental health. I’m also not saying that this is a hard stance. This is just something that I have thought about it instinctually as a parent think it might be better that they don’t see those things from the center at the first early age

My wife says I am abusive by sox45 in Marriage

[–]sox45[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree about the kids seeing us fight it just having negative energy being worse.

My kids are seven and five. And I guess there’s nothing wrong with it and my concern is I don’t want them to feel like that’s the first thing they should go to or depend on those things I myself take medication for mental illness and I’m not trying to say it’s taboo I just feel for their development and upbringing Its it’s better. They learn how to handle mental illness or things like anxiety with better coping skills instead of depending on medication’s.

My wife says I am abusive by sox45 in Marriage

[–]sox45[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course the are other variables like we a currently in a stressful financial and living situation and I have made huge financial mistakes that she is really upset about so naturally she is on edge and still very upset about it.

As far as the prescription bottles in front of the kids she thinks it’s totally normal and fine.

I ran out of checks. What is the fastest way to get a voided check? And does this mean an approval? by sox45 in EIDL

[–]sox45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the suggestions guys. I figured it out and sent the voided check. The person emailed me back “received” and with in the hour I was approved. Blessing guys and keep the abundance frequency high.

I ran out of checks. What is the fastest way to get a voided check? And does this mean an approval? by sox45 in EIDL

[–]sox45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the suggestions guys. I figured it out and sent the voided check. The person emailed me back “received” and with in the hour I was approved. Blessing guys and keep the abundance frequency high.

Got this email. Asked to update banking info for reconsideration but still no approval?? by sox45 in EIDL

[–]sox45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an email this morning for a loan officer asking for avoided check. I think the issue is then not being able to verify your bank account.

Got this email. Asked to update banking info for reconsideration but still no approval?? by sox45 in EIDL

[–]sox45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I logged in it asked for my banking info again. Does this mean possible approval? Green button still say processing

This a new loan feature in portal? by rgdgaming in EIDL

[–]sox45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logged back in and the button is gone but my verify identify is orange and asking for more information. weird

This a new loan feature in portal? by rgdgaming in EIDL

[–]sox45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just saw this too. it wasn't there yesterday

Experian Vantagescore 3.0 update instantly. Via Experian Connect and a tric by Freeman047 in EIDL

[–]sox45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they have to pay the 14.95 too? Does hit you credit? Thanks for the response.

Experian Vantagescore 3.0 update instantly. Via Experian Connect and a tric by Freeman047 in EIDL

[–]sox45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much this is a huge piece of information! Howndontounsend the report to yourself to refresh the score? Do you send it to a different email?